This is in response to Poor family relationships root of teen pregnancies, research reveals. In support of Pro-Life values which are superior to contraceptive / abortive “liberal” values.

People forget that from a biologist’s point of view, humans begin reproducing when they begin menstruating. What is illogical is human “civilized” thinking and culture which only condemns what is NATURAL. Our wiser ancestors knew enough to try and marry off their daughters early enough to men they see as having desirable traits. Nowadays the rotten culture only serves to delay pregnancy to unnatural ages beyond teens via either contraception or celibacy… both of which are entirely unnatural. Pet dog owners are wiser to choose a good stud for their female dogs. Humans today are dumb enough to not choose whats best for their daughters and wind up with undesirable mongrel studs impregnating their daughters.

For poor and good looking teenage Filipinas, they are offered / recruited prostitute jobs in the big cities as “waitresses”, GROs, “models”, “escorts”, “massage therapists”, and the “luckier” ones go abroad as “Japayukis” etc… and many teenage filipinas willingly do this with eyes wide open because they have: nothing to do, nowhere to go, no system of marriage marrying them off… if they want higher education beyond high school… there is no student loan system… so they become prostitute “scholars.”

Until 1990, the marrying age in the land was 14. Now it is 18. We need only look at the relative success of our MUSLIM sisters who live amongst us. They get MARRIED instead of being PROSTITUTED or getting ZERO VALUE BOYFRIENDS. I’d like to point out how STUPID the boyfriend girlfriend culture is. It is unreasonable to not expect SEX in a boyfriend / girlfriend relationship. So Muslims get a PLUS PLUS… marriage is better. And they marry off their daughters early enough to escape the ravages of what “christian” filipinas are suffering from.

I would like to open up these very point of dicussions with fellow pro-lifers. There is only that small percentage of people who “can wait” and suppress their sexuality / reproductivity… to be celibate and childless even for the rest of their lives… the rest have instincts to reproduce… and they will want to reproduce any which way they can… so let’s give greater opportunity / selection for earlier marriage. 18 year old women meet up with 25 to 35 year old men who are READY for marriage… not 18 year old boys…

Prolifers who are reproducers need to dialogue with prolifers who are non-reproducers so we can tackle this jointly. Non reproducers have no idea how strong and almost unstoppable the human sex drive is. This is why the depopulationists / “liberals” attempt to instead PERVERT human sexuality with contraception / abortion, porn, homosexuality, etc. And this is why we pro-lifers must promote MARRIAGE at “early” / NATURAL ages.

Talk about ideal wife! I’ve got to hand it to Senator Ramon Revilla Sr.; he sure knows how to pick them and pick them well he did. One of his many wives, Genelyn was 16 and love struck. He wanted her and she wanted him, “Don Ramon wanted ten children, so I gave him ten.” That is just awesome real human love, responsibility, capacity. Truly pro-life!

“I did not ask his age, it did not matter to me. Besides, he looked young,” she said. On a road trip to Los Baños, Genelyn said Revilla made an offer a young girl in love could not possibly refuse. “He said he wanted to have ten children with me, with a yaya (nanny) for every child. I said yes without thinking of the future,” she recalled.

“I was really blinded with love. I also told him I will not continue this relationship without love,” Genelyn said. Thus, at 17, Genelyn became a mistress to the 59-year-old Jose Acuña Bautista, known in the movies as Ramon Revilla.

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Despite a number of household help commanded by a majordoma, Genelyn said it was not a picnic raising nine children. Revilla would visit them on weekends. He would take them all to Baguio for a week. The children would join their more than 50 brothers and sisters on Christmas Eve and on Revilla’s birthday at the Revilla mansion in Cavite. But the day-to-day parenting, Genelyn did all by herself.

Of course no family is perfect. One of her sons just died and is being publicized in Manila media.

My interest is in my idol Ramon Revilla Sr. How he was able to amass 80 biological children. He helped raise them all and thankfully with willing and wonderful women like Genelyn.

See and hear 3 part interview of Genelyn at:

http://lifestyle.inquirer.net/46505/the-incredible-burden-of-being-genelyn-magsaysay

People fail to look at the obvious biological facts. Infidelity meaning is just that, they just have an instinct to make more babies. Sex is a basic instinct to make more babies. So stop with all the emotional gibberish and get down to the biological facts so you can deal with it better.

I have been observing friends in anguish over this very simple matter of infidelity and its meaning. Why they are so wrapped up in their religious fantasies and moral shenanigans. Basic instinct, sex, has no morals. And the parties involved would rather burn in hell than not get what they want. What they want is more babies, sex is just the action that is required.

Take the case of a young mother with 2 children, married to a foreigner husband. Wife wants more babies, husband foreigner does not… he comes from a very contraceptive culture. Wife disagrees. Wife gets local male “lover” / baby maker.

Foreigner husband has young Filipina wife and has 1 child and 1 child only. Foreigner has 4 children elsewhere, his former wife, an old girl friend. Young wife goes bad, gets in fights with him, goes out at night partying… and rapes her husband as often as she can. She calms down… she’s 3 months pregnant. Peace and quiet for the husband. Just hope it’s his.

Wife has 2 kids with husband. Wife gets ligated / had her tubes tied. Husband then starts coming home 4am – 5am every single day. And what should he come home to? A wife who can only offer contraceptive sex? A wife who did not consult him but selfishly thought of herself only as she did not want any more children? What makes her think her husband only wants contraceptive sex for the rest of his life?

Humans have this basic instinct that sex is for making babies. And no modern contraceptive practices are going to demolish this basic instinct.

- Sex gets old with the same partner after a few months of no babies.
- Sex is tons of times more exciting if there is that possibility of babies.

Humans are survivors. Contraceptive men and women who do not want to have any more children will be left eating the dusts of infidelity by their partners who just want to have more babies.

And this brings me to the decisions that these couples must take. Again for the benefit of children. It is detrimental to keep divorcing, and divorcing and divorcing. Who’s going to take care of your mutual children?

The solution is to keep it all together. Addition, without subtraction.

This is a new age contraceptive society problem. The expectations are ridiculous. Just because you lead contraceptive lives where you get to have unlimited sexual intercourse without getting pregnant is just un-natural. Nature didn’t make sex that way. Unlimited sex without babies is monotonous not worth it sex… It gets old pretty quickly.

Wife had a hysterectomy after 2 children. Husband keeps his monogamous vows. Wife gets hornier and looks for an additional sexual partner… says husband should get his additional sex partner too.

Husband is devastated why this is happening to him and thinks of divorcing his wife. Wife can’t do any “harm”, her core being tells her she wants more babies. so she will have sex and sex and sex… but it will never ever be possibly due to her hysterectomy. And this is what her religious husband needs to understand. Keep it together. Her sexual thing will soon pass, she’s in her mid 40s.

Life isn’t black or white. If you are truly pro-family and pro-marriage, pro-life, you accept your situations and biological realities and still keep your living children at the top of your priorities. It’s addition without subtraction. Let the reproducers have at it. Men and women do not necessarily have equal number of babies between them. Live with that reality.

The happy ending of this blog post is that it benefits your mutual living children. Divorcing or completely dumping existing children to grandparents is foul and reeks of complete selfishness. We are educated humans and we need to overcome short sighted jealousies, the meaning of infidelity is they just want more babies… their very souls are craving for more babies. Those who have made their “quota” may selfishly refuse to understand this. But think of that time when you still hadn’t reached your baby quota. Now you know. Think.

Getting married should always be for the sake of the children. To make more children, to raise children, to guide children. Whatever quarrels or trials couples get into, which is usually cliché, just suck it up and keep your marriage intact and harmonious for the sake of your children.

For example, with the cliché situation husband has a third party whether it is a mistress, a girl friend, a one night stand, or prostitutes… this describes the cliché 99% of the males in the Philippines… if a wife decides she wants a separation because husband is in this cliché of having sex with another woman, then she needs to suck it up and change her “made for TV paradigm” of faithful monogamy or bust… because it is just plain dumb, stupid and idiotic to believe in this fairy tale of faithful monogamy or bust… this is just plain wrong.

Let me explain. If you put a tracking device and video camera in the butt of every Filipino male in his entire lifetime, then you may see the cliché 99% of male infidelity in action, which is enabled by their counterpart cliché of of Filipino women who heartily indulge in having sex knowingly, willingly and preferably with married men.

So the intactness of Filipino “Christian” marriages in the 21st century relies in instilling realistic expectations from Filipino first wives. These first wives need the experiential wisdom of mistresses that male infidelity is normal and something that needs to be accepted as this has been the Filipino reality and tradition for hundreds of years. Adoption of Catholic vows has not changed this biological wiring.

Don’t be the hag wife who makes unreasonable expectations of fidelity from husbands and be all to willing to sacrifice your sons and daughters to live a life of separated parents. Your personal pride vs the sake of the children should be a no brainer. Let me spell it out for you:

Stomp on your pride and suck it up for the sake of the children.

Don’t ask, don’t investigate, stop paying for private investigators to track down your husband. If you look for “it”, infidelity, you will surely see it. So just stop looking and just assume it.

My grandma kept her family intact by being sweet to my grandpa and had sex with my grandpa each and every time he asked for it. “I never say no” was my grandma’s moto. Something you first wives should learn. My grandma was the 2nd wife… the mistress… so yes, she knew, she knew.

Documentary from a Christian / secular point of view recognize and somewhat admire the success of the propagation of Islam. Not by evangelization or conquest, but via birth rates, higher fertility rates. And who to thank for the Islamic success? Islamic women! Yes, Islamic women have baby making power. Islamic women practice both monogamy and polygamy. Islamic women are less contraceptive. And it seems Islamic women are more family oriented. Success, success, success!

This is a wake up call to Christians or those who think they are Christian. These Christians can only think about evangelizing to others, but they cannot even shepherd their own flock. Christian / post christian / secular women make far less babies. Christian baby making systems suck, inferior. Christian women mostly suck at baby making. That is the wake up call.

Seems Islamic women are happier? Islamic family system makes for happier women? Islamic diets are more nutritious? Islamic women have more resolve to make more babies and raise more babies? Islamic women have better… higher quality sex? Or is it that Islamic women do not believe in the kind of sexual promiscuity being promoted in Christian / post Christian / secular societies? Maybe Islamic women are treated BETTER? Islamic women are happier?

Call to action? Make more babies. Contraception and promiscuity don’t work and only serve to obliterate families.

So, is it time to say, if you can’t beat em, join em?

Stop hating the Muslim women and admire them and point out what seems to be working for them. Maybe if your culture adopted some key aspects of Muslim women, you can still save your own culture.

This website is pro-marriage, pro-polygamy, pro-family, anti-divorce. Don’t let the narrow minded monogamy advocates shove out polygamy. Polygamy is marriage. And more so committed with even more conservative values. I believe in addition, not subtraction. For the good of the children, you as hell make your marriage work… not as facade, but for real.

Divorce is ridiculous. There is no biological divorce in the first place to speak of. Biologically that child is still part mother and part father, there is no divorcing that FACT. What is important is for people’s commitment to children and everything else will work.

A young raw paleo dieter from Poland is getting married soon and asks an innocent question about his true sexuality about monogamy and polygamy and what he is feeling lately.

This idea of mono/poly-gamy occupies my mind a lot recently. I am getting married this summer and it might be the reason why it kicks in now. Because, funny enough the closer it is to wedding date the more I am in touch with my raw male energy that includes approaching women I do not know, flirting, physical contact, taking risks, wanting to show off with my good qualities and impress women I am attracted to but do not know yet very well.

All of this was in the state of sleep before and it kicks in in this very moment. I know this might be a part of fear of commitment- I think everyone have it and need to deal with it. But on the other hand I do not find my emerging desires unhealthy or unwelcome. It is good to feel all of this, regardless of what voice of my culture and my own superego has to say about it. And in my own mind it is nothing untruthful and bad too. Because the interesting thing is that my love to my fiancée is at its peak right now. It is my conscious decision to marry her and existence this desires to flirt with other women does not mean that I do not love her or I got tired with her or anything else. I know it is how she would think when she happened to know about it (she does not) and she would feel hurt and let down and unloved. But the fact is: in my male eyes I do love her and respect her and appreciate her and still long for sexual contact with other women.

And I am in really fucked up situation about it because:
1) I cant even bring it up with her because even discussing about it would hurt her and could spoil our bond together
2) I cant just act my impulses out freely – it would be cheating – it is too stressful for me, and I have too much respect for her to risk the possibility of her embarrassment disappointment.
3) I can pretend everything is ok and give up this part of myself as I was doing my whole life, but hey it is a vital part of me that is real and very important. Maybe someone suggests that I should work on bringing back the fire between us, into the relationship. But I think it is not possible – 10year old relationship has different kind of “fire” – we still have great intimacy and sexual relationship but it is definitely not the same thing that I described in first part of this post.

So i start to wonder..is it me or has our culture gone astray in regards to our sexuality at some point? And it it is the case, what is ideal model? Because giving up marriage or lifetime relationships do not seem to work very well as we can see in swingers communities.

HOW MONOGAMY REALLY WORKS… hard truth.

Healthy men have abundant sex drive to go around. (you are raw paleo so you will have abundant sex drive until you die of old age)

You are normal. Your thoughts are normal.

I will give you a tip on how monogamous marriages really work in the 21st century and has so in the past 20th century:

1. Man really loves his wife. Wife (#1 wife material woman) really loves husband.

2. Wife initiates sperm wars before marriage and during marriage… see chick flick (movie) “Love Affair” 1994. Women like being DISCREET. Males like you must defend yourself by ensuring all the children she gives birth to are yours by DNA / Paternity Tests. If a child is not yours, you let your entire clan know woman has cheated your ENTIRE CLAN. Child is not your child, child is not their nephew, child is not their grandchild.

3. Man realizes wife does not match his continuous sex drive. Women do not like sex when it is menstruation related, when they are sick, when they are pregnant, when they have just given birth, when they don’t want additional children.

So man resorts to mistresses (you have a child with her), f*** buddies, prostitutes (now called escort services, massage parlor attendants, KTV girls, etc.)

The trick here is that the ideal monogamous man knows his #1 love and commitment of time, money, effort is his #1 wife. And the ideal monogamous man is DISCREET about all this. He does not advertise to his #1 love that he “gets it off” of other women. So make sure you have extra money for yourself, do not surrender all your money to your #1 wife, you have your own money for your sex budget… all the while still keeping your commitment to your #1 wife and #1 wife’s children.

The #2 and #3 women / mistresses are totally attracted to monogamous discreet males like you. They absolutely adore / love that you are happily married, that you are ENDORSED by a #1 woman. They just want a piece of your time and your sperm for their child. They don’t ask much like your #1 woman. If they want to be #1 you need to drop them. So do not give your complete identity and complete contact numbers to these women so they don’t go crazy and call your #1 wife. You don’t want that.

You can give a copy of the book ETIQUETTES for MISTRESSES by Julie Yap Daza to your mistresses so they know their place.

This is what I can say a template of how monogamous marriages / societies really work to balance out the sexual needs of people.

As you can see the women all just want a piece of you. They don’t want to be around you all the time. If you stick like a lizard to a woman she will feel choked to death, not able to breath, women need space, they don’t want a man to be there 100% of the time. It is this realization in ISLAM monogamy that a good number of wives is 3 to 4 wives per good man. If you talk with islamic women, they are happy with this arrangement and they like this arrangement. Same with FLDS women… see reality show “sister wives.”

The bottom line is you man — make lots of money — much much money — and no wife will complain. It is only when man lacks money that women complain. So make sure you make lots of money.

Message to my sons. Stop being a nice guy… a door mat. You will never get the girl that way. With hold your niceness and give some of it only if the girl deserves it. Pretty doesn’t cut it. There are tons of pretty girls out there. Girls know that. It’s a competitive arena for them over prize catches like you. SargeNation explains in this video:

and SerbAtheist explains it as well: Why are women attracted to jerks? Women are disgusted by nice guys.

Never lose sight that this is all part of the mating game. The truth about human behavior. What television and girls tell you young men to be nice is wrong. That is not how the real world works.

I was touched to read one of Plato’s quotations: “Reproduction, an effect of love, is as close as humans come to attaining physical immortality, and shows their desire to live on vicariously through their children.”

This should be core teaching. The DESIRE to be immortal through their children. This is what it’s all about, folks. You and I are a result of an UN-broken line of ancestors who ALL DESIRED to be immortal. Just as my parents will be immortal through me, I will be immortal through my children and grand children.

I’ll have none of this depopulation so cull your own children sicko mentality plaguing a good number of people these days. A large majority of people these days do not want to get married and do not want to have children. The only reason most people have children these days is because their sexual urges subconsciously got the better of them.

What’s worse is these dead ender people are now collectively despising us mothers and fathers as selfish because WE DESIRE to be immortal through our children. You read that right. They not only keep to themselves their desire to be barren, they propagate their religion of depopulation, and they curse at the reproducers.

Well some people have to inherit the earth! Me and a couple of friends volunteer to inherit the earth. Go live on and enjoy your barren lives, while I enjoy my kids.

Looking for your honest inputs, your observation about this phenomena in the Philippines:

Prostitution Is a Venue for Poor Women to Meet Moneyed Men

- Like dancing
- Like dating websites
- Like Indians advertising their children who are “ready” in the classified ads

Philippine society is so structured.
Much like a caste system.
People mingle within their caste.

But how about mingling outside of their caste?

Sure, a lot of them would rather be hotel front desk staff or flight attendants, but how many of those jobs are open? A lot of these women can’t afford even a 6 month or 2 year course.

Poor women wanting to get out of their caste have no outlet, no venue to meet men of higher caste. Prostitution: ktv, escort, psp, mp gives them access to a plethora of higher caste men they would never have had access to.

The poor women think it is just an I need more money angle.

But looking at it from a social scientist perspective, a good number of these women are able to snag a mighty good catch of a man. Notice how stunning beauties are immediately plucked out by men who can afford. Making them mistresses, honest girlfriends or even wives.

And I’m sure a lot of prostitutes get pregnant as well and eventually raise those children. Most of the higher caste men who get them pregnant easily give child support. Even if no support, the woman thinks she got BETTER genes from a more intelligent or handsome man.

The poor women do not want to get stuck in their poor caste with fellow poor men who in their eyes are poor, dead beat, jobless drunkard, womanizers. What’s good for the poor women prostituting themselves is for many of them, this is temporary, they get a better man or share in a better man of higher caste… not poor, not dead beat, not jobless, not a drunkard… of course a womanizer too. (most men are womanizers, rich or poor.)

Of course it all depends on some luck and the skill these women play their cards.

This is all a social science thought experiment. What I see.

What do you see?