03.08.07
Posted in Articles, Fertility Help, Polygamy at 6:25 am by goodsamaritan
My pronatal idol former senator and movie star Ramon Revilla Sr. was reported to have left his DNA samples with the National Bureau of Investigations (NBI) so that anyone claiming to be his offspring can just spend half the amount by matching their own DNA.
This was reported yesterday in the Philippine Daily Inquirer. But this is actually old news and is available in ABC-CBN News since June 2006 at http://www.abs-cbnnews.com/images/news/microsites/pipol/agimat.html
Mr. Revilla’s daughter Andrea keeps the official list of verified children. It was reported some 2 years ago that when Mr Revilla celebrated his 80th birthday, there were some 80 children celebrating it with him. One daughter even asked Mr. Revilla’s approval to get married that same day!
Ah the circle of life. Some of us just operate bigger and multiple circles. Maybe our bloodlines will cross some day? I just love winners. And Mr. Revilla is one very big winner.
I have always wondered. How was he able to make 80 children? Are all these women just lining up to him and knocking on their door at the precise time they are ovulating? Does Ramon Revilla have a secretary that schedules women to only see Ramon Revilla if they are at their fertile time of the month? Or does his reputation of financially taking care of each and every child inspire all these women to only see him when they are fertile? Probably all of the above. I will know. Some day. I must meet my idol and have a chat with him.
Now some people may despise Mr Revilla because he has many more children than they do, they brand him “irresponsible”. This is false. Mr. Revilla never forced any woman to have his children. Mr. Revilla never raped any of his children’s mothers. And Mr. Revilla had the money to financially take care of each and every one of his children.
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01.16.07
Posted in Polygamy at 11:58 am by goodsamaritan
Sunday was supposed to be my day reserved to healing my brother’s eczema. Until my grandmother called up and got into the picture. She rode a taxi to our house and relayed to me her dream. She had dreamt that she and I were lined up to church towards the priest when I stepped back and left her all alone. She said it was a premonition. And she wants to bring me into the fold.
She’s darn right about me turning my back on a religion she and my mother adhere to but which I totally disagree upon. The big disagreement I have with their religion is forced monogamy for all. One size fits all. No deviation. Lest you are a sinner and condemnable.
Well la dee da. I vehemently disagree with that monogamy as faith rule I have vowed never to let my children prey victim to false monogamy promises. Let me explain to you why. Of course I lectured my grandma in the language she understood, her own families and my own families. How monogamy works in the real world. At least in my families, it is a farce.
Monogamy is 1st wife centric selfish implementation of human sexuality. In the desire of a first wife to covet sole attention, she sets up laws and unreasonable expectation from her husband and her male children. This unreasonable expection is may you have sexual relations only with one woman, your wife from the time you are born until the time of your death. In short, monogamy unrealistically expects the MALE humans to have sex with only 1 FEMALE for his ENTIRE LIFESPAN. Unbelievable, scientifically false, and observably DISHONEST to the most condemnable depths!
This is why peaceful monogamy in reality works this way. Monogamous man marries 1 wife. She bears him children limited to her own selfishness. Say today, it is 2, 1 or none. To limit her childbearing, she convinces the man to use contraception. Any form of contraception will do. Including Natural Family Planning contraception.
Most men eventually get sick and tired of the same old contraceptive dish, monogamy turned into monotony, and seeks sex elsewhere. His contraceptive thinking gets him a mistress who he has sex with contraceptively. Or prostitution is instituted and they get their rocks off contraceptively on those kinds of women.
So who in heaven ever cares about the sad plight of MEN??? I do! Those men will someday be my SONS! I absolutely care who my sons have sex with. And as a loving and caring father I want my sons to have sex with CLEAN WOMEN. And the best assurance of getting my sons CLEAN WOMEN is through honest MARRIAGE. Not just with 1 wife, but with SEVERAL women.
Why so? Take the case of a non-contraceptive 1st wife who wants to limit her children to 2. As a true non-contraceptive, she will merely REFUSE sex to her husband. Say she is 26 and her husband is 30 years old. Is it at all REASONABLE to expect a 30 year old man to be SEXUALLY inactive for the rest of his life? Of course not!
Intellectual honesty observes polygamous behaviour in both men and women. Humans are polygamous by nature. If you are at all altruistic, allowing polygamy, real marriage is the FAR BETTER honest solution. Especially for MY CHILDREN.
So lets agree on something. I do what I think is best for MY CHILDREN. You do what you think is best for YOURS.
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11.10.06
Posted in Articles, Marriage Promotion, Polygamy at 11:48 am by goodsamaritan
Ask my little boys how many babies they want, I just teach them to say 100 babies, but they spout out whatever large number they can come up with larger than 100, they sometimes say 200 or 221,000 or 1,000,000 or 1,000,000,000!!!
I teach my little girls to have 10 babies.
So my 5 year old boy asks me, how come we boys can have so many more babies than girls? I tell them “it is because girls are the ones who give birth. And they can only have so many babies in their reproductive lifetime. And boys produce billions and billions of sperm. We just get many sexy mommies so we can have lots of babies!” Plus during story telling time I tell them the true stories of their grandfathers, great grandfathers and uncles. Most are polygamous. It is the factual norm of their bloodline.
I’ve been teaching my kids that their goal in life is to make and take care of lots and lots of babies. That this is the greatest thing in the world. Just as I spend a lot of personal time raising them myself and they know they are my babies.
My still single sister in law says I’m a dictator.
I say, “if parents abdicate their role as teachers of their children, then it will be the mass media and other people who will be brainwashing their children. Their children may be biologically theirs but their minds will not. Children do not learn by mere osmosis, you have to interact with them, teach them, spend time with them, choose their books, choose their friends, choose their schools, choose their caregivers. This is hands on parenting.”
Back to the difference between boys and girls?
It does not matter how many boyfriends or husbands your daughter acquires in her lifetime, her potential number of offspring… your grandchildren will just be around 10.
While it does very much matter how many wives or girlfriends your sons acquire… and if left alone to their natural potential without self defeating contraception, sons will be able to deliver so much more grandchildren than your daughters.
Isn’t it obvious? Dog studs are advertised. Pig boars are advertised. Bull sperm flies cryogenically around the world. Our chickens need only 1 rooster and a lot more hens.
This is the natural order of life, 1 male to several females, some cultures deny this in their man-made laws and religions, but the reality on the ground has not changed.
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10.04.06
Posted in Articles, Polygamy at 9:40 am by goodsamaritan
A site was advertising on pronatal.org and I decided to give it a free link so you can investigate it.
http://www.polygamy4women.com/
Gives easy solid, obvious arguments for logical people.
Let Me Get This Straight!
So you mean to tell me if a man takes care of more than one woman he is shunned by society and is morally wrong? However, if a man was to sleep around with many women and leave them the next day he is considered a player, and is praised by society? Or if a man divorces his wife to marry another woman he is considered by American society to be ‘normal’. But don’t you dare take care and support more than one woman as your wife! Instead fill your mind with all of the lust you can find on MTV and sleep around and create as many fatherless children as you can, and then leave them at the first opportunity for another sexual encounter. We want to lock up polygamous husbands, but let those who have HIV and AIDS spread their damn diseases in the streets freely. Those who create fatherless children tear down the threads of society, but a man that takes care of his wives and family they want to put in prison!
Ladies and Gentleman I believe we have our standards twisted, our scales unbalanced, and our minds blinded. Sure you have some idiots out there that take advantage of polygamy and molest children. I know those that are against polygamy will argue that some little girl or boy was molested by a polygamous. Yes, I agree that there are some sick bastards out there in society, but the fact remains there are far more monogamous marriages with sexual abuse than there are in polygamy. Yes and there is far more abuse by single mothers than there is by polygamy. I have heard it said that over 50% of married American men admit to affairs outside of marriage. If 50% admit to it I dare say it is far greater than 50% that actually commit this. It is in a man’s genes to want more companions than one woman for his entire life. Since society does not recognize this, we condemn millions of woman to loneliness and millions of children are fatherless. Oh but a man must only pick one woman for his entire life? Does this work? I do believe the divorce record proves that more than 50% of marriage end in divorce. What about the other 50%? Well most of those men find some kind of outlet for their frustration, like committing multiple affairs.
Is polygamy adultery? Adultery is when a man sleeps with a woman that is married to another man. However if a man has more than one wife that is not adultery. Fornication is sex between a man and woman that is not married.
This site is dedicated to helping women get the correct information on polygamy and if need be help find suitable husbands that have their head on straight and our morally sound.
http://www.polygamy4women.com/
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Posted in Articles, Polygamy at 9:12 am by goodsamaritan
An Islamophobe named Babette Francis was thoroughly debunked by Megan Love of www.vheadline.com in her column, Tell me, will YOU be wearing clothes when the Emperors are still naked?
The good part is Ms Love exposed the de facto polygamy aka more like polyamory of Australian women. With (any) government imposition of forced child support from men, the birth of a child signals a de facto commitment of funds aka shotgun government marriage.
Babette Francis: ADMIT that polygamy is unacceptable, not merely because it is against Australian law, but because it is discriminatory, demeaning and degrading to women.
Megan Love: Whoa, Lady … you better start working that on our women too…
Australian women are permitted by law to have a baby every year to a different man [whether he likes it or not, it is NEVER her fault or responsibility] … and extract 18% of his gross income for that child. That is exactly the same as multiple husbands because she is permitted to sleep with ANY of the fathers as she would a ‘husband/partner’ by Law … and still get her other ‘husbands’ to support her offspring and the Government to not only pay for her basic up keep and a child allowance, but jail her husbands eventually if they don’t pay!
- Ask a few Aussie men why they never remarried and you’ll probably learn it’s because they and three other husbands are still keeping up payments on their ex wife and calling it child support…
If you wish to vilify something, be sure you aren’t protecting an invisible form of it … and make sure that you aren’t being a sexist bitch when you try to make it OK that Australian women CAN DO THAT LEGALLY!
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09.03.06
Posted in Articles, Marriage Promotion, Polygamy at 10:03 pm by goodsamaritan
From the September 03, 2006 frontpage comment of www.angryharry.com
Warren Steed Jeffs Arrested. Warren Steed Jeffs had been on the run for more than a year. Rumors had him hiding out in Texas, Canada, Mexico and any number of safe houses across the West. No one but his closest followers knew for sure.
He made the FBI’s Ten Most Wanted list.
The FBI’s Ten Most Wanted!?
It seems that those suspected of sexual misconduct are nowadays considered to be the equivalent of murderers and terrorists who kill people!
But, of course, the fact that Warren Steed Jeffs is a polygamist probably has something to do with all the hoo-hah; though, for the life of me, I cannot actually see what is wrong with polygamy; if this is what people want to do.
People can have all sorts of relationships these days. They can live together in multiple-partner situations. They can have sex with either gender - or both! Women can have sex - and children - with different men. Men can have sex - and children - with many women. All these things are legal. So why is there such a huge fuss when it comes to polygamy?
What is the big deal!?
Indeed, how can it be legal for a man to impregnate four different women and then scoot off to find a fifth, and yet illegal for a man to commit himself to, say, two women by marrying them!?
Similarly, how can it be legal for a woman to have children with four different fathers and then scoot off to find a fifth, and yet illegal for a woman to commit herself to, say, two men by marrying them!?
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09.02.06
Posted in Articles, Marriage Promotion, Polygamy at 11:38 am by goodsamaritan
A forum thread in www.manilatonight.com asked if you would want to be a stay at home mom or a career woman.
Here are my choice cuts from those who experienced career mothers.
Uchisy said:
i’d prefer being a houswife, my mom wasnt there for me when she worked…
And this is what I had to say:
My mother was a career / business woman. She sucked as a mom, basically because she had no time for us.
My wife is a career woman. She sucks as a mom, because she has no mommy skills, she has no housewife skills, and she has no motherly attitude, she cannot cook, and she has no time for me as a husband, and she has no time for the children.
You CAN NEVER HAVE IT ALL. You cannot be present at the same time and same place.
Let this be my RANT against the career women in my life.
Other than the biology of giving birth…
You ALL SUCKED as mothers.
My wife needs 3 yayas and 1 full time cook to compensate for her absence as a mother.
My thought: “Career women should be relegated to 2nd wives in a Polygamous (multiple marriage) arrangement in a household, the full time Housewife shouled be uplifted and honored as the 1ST WIFE.”
Then lordraven12 sighed:
“You can’t do anything about it, that’s the way life is… (women work today).”
My reply to that is:
Actually I can do something about it in my children’s generation: Career women are banned from marrying my sons unless they are 2nd wives. 1st wives will always be HOUSE WIVES.
And my daughters will be marrying men who have the finances to allow my daughters to be #1 and be THE HOUSE WIFE.
So there you have it. We have recognized the problem, we will not make the same mistakes. Career women are not suitable first wives and suck at mothering. Career women can bring in the money, but cannot run the home.
The original manilatonight thread can be found here.
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08.13.06
Posted in Articles, Polygamy at 10:03 pm by goodsamaritan
I just read Jared Diamond’s Guns Germs and Steel. In it is a wonderful discussion of human groups from tribes to chieftains to townships to religions to nation states. Then I got to wondering about why polygamy is persecuted and disallowed by secular nation states.
The nation state you see is the successor of a religious state. Religion is now subordinate to the state. The state’s laws is the religion. The state is a beehive of activity run by people for the survival and strengthening of the nations state and the powers-that-be (today’s bankers and corporations) that benefit from the state.
Secular nation states will always move to quash any rebellion, any threat to its strength or existence. A secular nation state wants the people to serve the state first. This is why education and business inevitably pay no mind to the strengthening of families. Broken families make it easier for a state to brainwash young minds to serve the state. The state tries to substitute itself for the family system.
Today, the secular state has re-defined family to those of not even blood relations, those of homosexuals, and the “traditional family” remains the mother-father-children model. What the state does not want to recognize is father-mother(s)-children. Secular states do so prohibit polygamy on a regular basis enough that there must be a reason secular states abhor polygamy.
Polygamy or a true marriage based family system is such a strong system it is the main building block of tribes. A man with multiple wives and a good number of children creates an autonomy for itself which rivals the state and makes its functions redundant. It is no surprise that polygamous groups will grow into having its own communes, its own towns, and this makes the secular state and it zombie citizens uncomfortable.
Let me explain the polygamous family with the visible example of HBO’s Big Love comedy drama. A polygamous family needs no outside household help or nannies. There are enough mothers to care for the young and educate them according to their family values. The polygamous family and their extended families can be large enough to support themselves in their own compound. This is unacceptable from the point of view of a secular state. That is like having a state within a state. States consume and amalgamate other states, townships and tribes. No one else should rival the power of the secular state.
Legalizing polygamy = promoting solid marriage based families, families which are tied by blood. Blood ties create tribes. Blood related tribes can create their own compounds. This is why secular nation states for many centuries have always insisted on the weak and unnatural forced monogamy only arrangements blessed by the state. The secular state does not care that forcing a one wife only at one time policy is biologically unreasonable and impossible, the secular state only cares about its unrivaled power and existence.
Examples abound with the Greek Empire of old, the old Roman Empire, today’s secular states. Only the religious Islamic states allow for polygamy, but enforcing limits and many hurdles. The stronger a state wants to become, the less power it wants at the hands of the families.
Now the Islamic states which allow polygamy are threatened by the secular empires which have grown more powerful. All over the world Islamic states are invaded and regime changed, taken over by the secular empires. This is the evolution of world. This is what the western imperial powers did to Turkey with the fall of the Ottoman empire after world war I; polygamy was made illegal. Secular Turkey’s cities with monogamy is now as sexually liberal as any western city. There is no difference between Christianity and Islam when both are forced to be monogamous.
As I have said before, it is the complete legalization of polygamy that will save the people of the world from the tyranny of the secular states that will ultimately self destruct. There is a way out of this cycle. Let us not wait for secular societies to self destruct. Move to legalize polygamy now.
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07.30.06
Posted in Articles, Polygamy at 9:55 pm by goodsamaritan
I would like to set the record straight about my intentions for my children. I want my children to have the option of Polygamy where Polygamy = Marriage. Got that? True, authentic marriage, with family, with children, no need for contraception, no hiding, out in the open, advantageous.
Some sexual perverts think instead of Poly-amory such as multiple girlfriends, or Poly-fubu with multiple f*ck buddies, or Poly-prostitutes with a man getting his rocks off by doing many prostitutes. This is the sad and sorry reality of Philippine monogamy… a sorry hypocrisy.
I want none of those for my children. This is why I am promoting polygamy.
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07.02.06
Posted in Depopulation Problem, Marriage Promotion, Polygamy at 11:27 pm by goodsamaritan
Today’s average woman in the big city has an average of 1.7 children. In 20 years it is reasonable to expect 1 child per woman.
This is outrageous and unacceptable for the future of my children.
One option is to move out of the city into the provinces where children are still made in adequate quantites.
The additional option is to be open to polygamy… just in case.
Just in case a wife a son chooses is infertile.
Just in case a wife a son chooses refuses to have more than 1 child.
Just in case a wife a son chooses resorts to contraception and is engulfed in the contraceptive culture.
The common case in 20 years is 1 child per woman in the city. If my son was unlucky enough to marry an average woman, I then only wind up with 1 grandchild from that son. This by all pronatal angles is unacceptable.
This is why I suggest my sons be registered as islamic. Under Philippine law, Islamic people are allowed their freedom of religion to marry according to their religious beliefs. Islam allows up to 4 wives. A son of mine marrying 4 average women winds up producing 4 grandchildren for us. A couple of decades ago, 1 woman could easily and gladly produce 6 or more children, a time when I can agree monogamy may be seen as acceptable to my sons. But the beginning of this 21st century is the darkest of times for reproduction.
We fathers should be prepared to do what must be done. The polygamy option is no longer there merely to satisfy one’s carnal desires as pervert monogamists insinuate. The polygamy option is now vital to avoid imminent family extinction.
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