06.19.06
Posted in Marriage Promotion at 2:42 pm by goodsamaritan
This June 18, 2006 is father’s day. A commercial celebration invented by enterprising people to sell more things.
This father’s day I am the father. My father has migrated out.
Today is special. I’m home with my father in law and all the children. My mother in law is in the USA, my wife is on the way to England. Jet setting mothers working for multinational companies.
Although I could choose to work for multinationals just like my wife, I choose not to. Who would be left to raise the children? The nannies? Maybe if we had a polygamous arrangement we’d get two additional wives and replace the nannies.
I chose to just operate a small web development firm, earn from domestic customers and from foreign customers. I located my office half a kilometer from our house in the same residential village. I take my boy to and from school, and manage the maids, the food. I do the domestic stuff, take the kids to doctors, parties, out for fun. I’m the one with flexible time… and I love it.
In fact I love it so much I’m thinking of how to get out of operating a company and just being a plain investor, blogger or businessman. So I can have more time with my kids.
What I need to have now is internet in my house. PLDT DSL application is taking a long time. I’m typing this blog at home while minding the kids wrecking havoc in our bedroom flipping our bed up and down.
My 2 year old just went out the door to pee in the garden. Oh joy!
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06.13.06
Posted in Contraception, Depopulation Problem, Marriage Promotion, Polygamy, Pro-life Issues at 10:59 pm by goodsamaritan
An often defense of my mother in law regarding the legality of polygamy in the bible’s old testament books is that there were a lot less people during that time.
I say there was indeed a rapid increase in the number of people in the past 200 years. But the imposition of monogamy for all lead to contraception and now a spiralling population decline, abortion, promiscuity, wholesale family destruction, homosexuality… a 21st century de facto Soddom and Gommorha.
It is time to bring back polygamy in vogue. Let the true family men and family women meet up and foster a renewed interest in authentic marriage and solid families.
I dare say the oppositors of polygamy are either selfish, ignorant, or sexual perverts thinking polygamy is merely a reflection of their own sexual perversions.
It is time to call in the heavy artillery, it is time to bring in the cavalry. Desperate times call for desperate measures. It is allowing polygamy… authentic marriage promotion, which will bring peace, order, and children to lands taken over by fornication and contraception.
I dare say to all of you calling yourself Pro-lifers. Think. Ask. Research. Throw away your dogma. Post your comments and start a discussion. Stop scratching your heads. Stop being stumped. Stop losing the pro-life fight to the anti-life. I’d like pro-lifers to make great leaps in marriage promotion, family promotion, children promotion. This is it folks.
The core problem is the forced monogamy system for all, except Islam.
Philippine Islam, while allowing polygamy side by side with monogamy, disallowing boyfriend girlfriend relationships, and promoting marriage for all; is far and away superior in marriage formation, family stability.
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06.11.06
Posted in Contraception, Marriage Promotion at 9:52 am by goodsamaritan
I would like to whole heartedly recommend people read up on the great internet truth writer, Henry Makow. There is some Philippine influence in him. He went around the world and found his current loving wife, a Filipina.
See Dr. Makow’s web site can be found at www.savethemales.ca, bookmark it.
Feminism Killed Courtship on Campus
By Henry Makow Ph.D.
June 09, 2006
By Henry Makow Ph.D.
Thanks to Feminism, co-eds today do not suffer the humiliation of courtship. They don’t have to worry about young men proffering flowers or asking them out for dinner or a dance.
They never need endure the rigors of dating where these men might express interest in them as friends, and possibly future wives and mothers.
Now, thanks to the humanizing influence of Feminism, they are free to drink themselves into a stupor and give their bodies haphazardly to complete strangers. They can engage in degrading sex acts without fear of old-fashioned repressive “patriarchal” morality.
This is the picture of college sexual mores in an article “Sex and Scandal at Duke [University]“ by Janet Reitman in the current issue of Rolling Stone magazine. It typifies the scene at most universities.
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06.09.06
Posted in Articles, Marriage Promotion at 5:59 pm by goodsamaritan
Pronatality has a price tag. But prices differ in many ways and means. Urban / commercial lifestyle is too expensive and knows no limits.
That is why I promote provincial living, nutritious food, holistic health, no tv, no commercialism.
Fact is you can be earning P 50,000 / month in Manila and your urban wife will complain you do not make enough. On the contrary, your provincial wife living in a 4th class municipality will bear you all the children you want with P 20,000 a month.
Therefore the choice of wives is important. Depending on how and where women are raised, they are stuck in that class of expenditure they are used to. Do not expect an urban woman used to her daddy earning P 200,000 / month to settle for anything less when she gets married. These spoiled women are potentially fatal to our pronatal ambitions. Women marry up, that is their psychology. The only way this kind of woman will be happy is with a man who earns more than her father does.
Given the above, a woman who is used to a father earning only P 5,000 / month in their backwater province will be thrilled to marry a man who earns P 10,000 / month.
My sons, know these simple facts of life. My daughters, now you know why I try very hard not to spoil you.
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05.29.06
Posted in Marriage Promotion, Polygamy at 9:15 am by admin
I’ve always wanted something like this for my descendants…
http://www.jamaat.org/islam/WomanSociety.html
We have discussed a Muslim woman’s status with regard to her husband and the children. What then of her relations with men other than her husband and her close relatives? This is where a considerable difference is found between Islamic practice and the customs now prevalent in the Western world. In the West, sexual relations outside marriage are still in theory generally considered a sin or at least vaguely undesirable, but in practice no steps whatsoever are taken to reduce the very high incidence of pre-marital and extra-marital sexual relations in spite of the soaring rates of illegitimacy and venereal disease. On the contrary, in films, television and certain sections of the press there is every encouragement to consider pre-marital experience desirable and extra-marital affairs quite normal. Contraception or abortion is expected to conveniently get rid of any undesirable side-affects of this way of life.
In contrast with this uncontrolled situation, Islam advocates a number of specific measures to reduce the temptations towards sex outside marriage.
To begin with, the Prophet advised all people to get married if they could, so that their natural desires should have a legitimate and legal fulfilment.
Secondly, due to the permission for limited polygamy there is no necessity for there to be a surplus of unattached women is the society.
Thirdly women are directed in the Qur’an when they appear in public to cover themselves in a modest type of dress so as not to attract men.
Fourthly the Muslim way of life excludes the boy-friend/Girl-friend system, mixed parties, dancing between men and women, taking alcohol or drugs, and other facets of the Western way of life which are well known to provide the situation from which pre-marital and extra-marital sexual relations develop. Social entertainments in Islam are generally either within the family and close friends of the family, or among men and women in separate groups.
Fifthly sex outside marriage is considered in Islam law not only as a sin but as a crime which is punished under the law in the same way as theft or murder. The punishment for it applies equally to the man and woman and is severe and deterrent in its effect.
Let me now look back at some of these points in more detail since they are very relevant to the life style of a Muslim woman.
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05.23.06
Posted in Marriage Promotion, Polygamy at 9:38 am by admin
In the 11th episode of Big Love, we are treated to a front row seat of the 3 wives various backgrounds and belief systems. Especially the contrast between Barb’s LDS and Nicki’s “The Principle” / Polygamy / FLDS.
Although the city suburb where the Henrickson’s live is dominated by LDS, Nicki points out loose morals abound.
This is exemplified with Nicki and Margene honking the car horn to disrupt a torrid french kissing scene between Ben and his girlfriend Brynn.”This is why mothers shouldn’t work!” Nicki exclaims.
Margene and the whole family is all smiles and happy to find out she is pregnant with her 3rd child.
This brings me to the difference between Polygamous and Monogamous marriage systems:
Allowing polygamy (not requiring) can and does enforce conservative values because it fulfills the natural sexuality of people. Mothers present at home allows easier and more successful raising of more children. Conservative sexuality channeled for reproduction leads to more children and a growing population.
Forcing Monogamy for all (as the only form of marriage) enforces an unnatural bind on the sexuality of people, thus they are destined to become liberals. Liberal sexuality is 90% contraceptive… for the purpose of pleasure. Children are more often raised not by their own biological mothers, but in schools and day care. Liberal birth rates are markedly very low. Liberal values lead to a declining population.
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05.02.06
Posted in Marriage Promotion at 1:33 am by admin
Sorry for the interruption in my blogging. My brother is sick and needs my attention. I’m the family healer you see. In fact, I’m the only family my brother can count on right now. Our parents abroad, a sister abroad, another sister in the far province… we are decimated.
Good thing my brother’s girlfriend lives in the house next door. Good that she has four other siblings with her. There is power in numbers. Someone to send him to the hospital, someone take care of his needs, someone watch over him. You can’t really trust a patient with just the hospital nurses and doctors. It is unheard off in our country. A rational family member must be there to assist the patient in making important decisions in his healing. I’m glad I’m here to help.
My children deserve better than decimation. They need company. They need fellow siblings they can count on. A large family is a dependable support system. A small family is fragile. You can choose your friends, but not your blood relatives… but your blood relatives will always be your blood relatives, no matter what.
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04.24.06
Posted in Marriage Promotion, Polygamy at 11:59 pm by admin
Absolutely wonderful piece this Jamaican writer Tony Robinson has written. He opens up with:
“So now you’re going to deem me immoral, amoral and chauvinistic. Imagine, promoting the idea of men having more than one wife, when in fact they often complain how one wife gives so much trouble. Well, happily I can say that the idea is certainly not mine, as polygamy, or the acquisition of multiple wives, is as old as time itself.”
Funny, true and honest work. Contratulations on the ending paragraph,
“Still, I say, hail polygamy, and even though many of you ladies may be fuming as you disagree with me, almost every man I know would vote for it. Plus if you really gave it serious thought, you may even agree for the above reasons, no lying, no deception, no suspicion, and you would always know where he is.”
See the whole article in the Jamaica Observer.
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04.23.06
Posted in Marriage Promotion at 11:29 am by admin
Some may think I hate career women, non-birthing contraceptive men and women, and non-earning men. They all have their rightful place and role in our world.
I just want to state my personal preference that they make unsuitable wives and husbands for my children.
We are pronatal. The more children the better. It is my female children’s primary job to bear children, so they will need men who can provide the necessary resources: food, shelter, clothing, etc. At the same time my male children will be reared to provide these necessary resources as husbands, they need wives who will fulfill the job of bearing children and taking care of the home.
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04.19.06
Posted in Contraception, Health, Marriage Promotion at 8:46 pm by admin
Most people shudder at my plans to marry off my boys around the age of 21. They say they are too young. They say my sons will be missing the best part of their lives. They say my sons will be missing out on the fun. I say these knee jerk reactionary people have no sense of the truth about today’s urban post-christian male sexual trajectory.
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