11.22.06
Posted in Marriage Promotion at 12:29 am by goodsamaritan
Just another friendly reminder to my sons to NEVER ever marry a career woman as first wives. Career women can become second wives so they can bring in extra income for the family. But career women have no business leading families. The first wife must always be a professional home maker.
From Pam as a comment at www.savethemales.ca
The young mothers who are starting to raise children today, have no clue. My husband and I watch them in stores and in restaurants and just shake our heads in despair. [They] do not know how to parent because their own mothers worked. They have no role model. Being a wife and mother is the most important job in the world. It is extremely rewarding and fulfilling. The woman is the heart and hearth of the home which lends stability to society.
Children, nowadays, are raised in institutions. When I hear women crying for better “child-care” I say, ‘raise them, yourself’. Do without that fancy SUV, your vacations to Disney, your family-wide cell-phones, fancy clothes and jewels and extra junk food and you would be surprised to find that it is possible to survive on one income. Of course, there are some mothers who truly need to work in order to put food on the table, I’m not talking about them.
When my daughter was in high school, she would tell me heart-rending stories of her female friends who had terrible, non-existant relationships with thier mothers. I would always ask if the mother in question worked outside the home and the answer would inevitably be, ‘yes’. There were two friends of hers who had a good relationship with their mother, those mothers were traditional, at-home Moms. My daughter and I are very close. It galls me to no end when, here I’ve spent almost thirty years of my life raising children and keeping house, with all that entails, I am shortly to be a grandmother, and yet, my friends will ask me when I’m going to go out and get a “real job’ now that my kids are grown. A lot of people retire from their jobs after 30 or so years. Apparently, mothers are not in that category.
Well, my next ‘real job’ will be to continue to take care of my home and my husband, make his lunch in the morning and have dinner on the table when he gets home and to be a traditional grandmother (another, over-looked, important job). I am also writing a children’s book, an article for an on-line magazine, crochet, am learning to weave, am a voracious reader, am raising dogs, I walk and exercise, I practice and study my religion, meditate and am always learning new things. I’ve always said that Moms who tell me they get too bored at home, lack intelligence.
If there were less working women out there, then there would be more jobs and better pay for the fathers which would allow the mothers to stay home and raise their own children instead of forcing them to be raised by strangers or spending all day long in school (after-care).
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11.10.06
Posted in Articles, Polygamy, Marriage Promotion at 11:48 am by goodsamaritan
Ask my little boys how many babies they want, I just teach them to say 100 babies, but they spout out whatever large number they can come up with larger than 100, they sometimes say 200 or 221,000 or 1,000,000 or 1,000,000,000!!!
I teach my little girls to have 10 babies.
So my 5 year old boy asks me, how come we boys can have so many more babies than girls? I tell them “it is because girls are the ones who give birth. And they can only have so many babies in their reproductive lifetime. And boys produce billions and billions of sperm. We just get many sexy mommies so we can have lots of babies!” Plus during story telling time I tell them the true stories of their grandfathers, great grandfathers and uncles. Most are polygamous. It is the factual norm of their bloodline.
I’ve been teaching my kids that their goal in life is to make and take care of lots and lots of babies. That this is the greatest thing in the world. Just as I spend a lot of personal time raising them myself and they know they are my babies.
My still single sister in law says I’m a dictator.
I say, “if parents abdicate their role as teachers of their children, then it will be the mass media and other people who will be brainwashing their children. Their children may be biologically theirs but their minds will not. Children do not learn by mere osmosis, you have to interact with them, teach them, spend time with them, choose their books, choose their friends, choose their schools, choose their caregivers. This is hands on parenting.”
Back to the difference between boys and girls?
It does not matter how many boyfriends or husbands your daughter acquires in her lifetime, her potential number of offspring… your grandchildren will just be around 10.
While it does very much matter how many wives or girlfriends your sons acquire… and if left alone to their natural potential without self defeating contraception, sons will be able to deliver so much more grandchildren than your daughters.
Isn’t it obvious? Dog studs are advertised. Pig boars are advertised. Bull sperm flies cryogenically around the world. Our chickens need only 1 rooster and a lot more hens.
This is the natural order of life, 1 male to several females, some cultures deny this in their man-made laws and religions, but the reality on the ground has not changed.
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10.09.06
Posted in Articles, Contraception, Fertility Help, Marriage Promotion at 5:33 pm by goodsamaritan
In parts of the world where romantic love is worshipped and viewed with awe and mystery, the most painful times are times of breakup. You know… boyfriend girlfriend breakups or husband wife divorces.
Let me take away the mystery that shrouds this common occurrence.
In my unified theory of reproduction, the romantice love dance is a prelude to the prospect of reproduction. In the olden days of non-contraception, life was easy and simple. You danced, you attempted to create lives (had sex), you made lives, you nurtured these lives as parents, and these lives gave birth to new lives and you still nurture them as grandparents.
Unfortunately this very simple human biological life cycle has been sabotaged by population controllers and their indoctrination of contraception.
The painful breakups that happen today are mere symptoms of infertility fatigue, let me explain. Couples do their mating rituals and finally mate… copulate… several times, in the attempt to procreate. There is almost no difference between cases of infertility or if they intentionally contracepted for long periods of time. The dance, the game gets old, gets tiring, and people get fed up with the same routine.
People expect change. Romance bears children, shared parenthood brings responsibility and love, shared grandparenthood makes you teachers with authority. People do not like being stuck in the romance stage. Boyfriends and girlfriends break up.
With divorces: urban lifestyles, feminism, ridiculous government laws mostly make parenting a non-event. I call it hands-off parenting. Parents being stuck in the rat race are mere money providers but are hands off. One or both parents do not have time for their children or their spouses. Plus their mis-education in the universities and businesses have brainwashed them to find no fulfillment in spending time with their biological families.
Same thing between infertility and contraception, married couples think just because they have a few children between them they are no longer subject to the same infertility - romance breakup subconscious game.
With forced monogamy and a non-reproducing wife, a still virile and reproductive husband will usually stray. The monogamous wife will usually tolerate a philandering husband as long as he sticks to prostitutes. But the monogamous wife will not tolerate mistresses or second wives. At this point they would rather choose divorce or separate. Crazy monogamists.
Of course open polygamy solves this problem. A younger wife is brought into the family. The husband is sexually fulfilled. The second wife gains a husband and makes a family. The first wife still shares parenting with her husband and now with her sister wife.
There is nothing mysterious about breakups, the ridiculous reasons are well… ridiculously justified by people’s subconsciousness of the need for change, for progress, to enhance reproductivity… even if people are today brainwashed to be contraceptive.
Let me share an example with my relatives:
Grandma wonders why Patricia and long time boyfriend Brad broke up.
I said, well Brad wasn’t man enough to impregnate Patricia.
My wife exclaims… sheesh, then rolls her eyes.
“I’ll show you proof”, I said.
Look at Aina and Lee, Aina had a long time boyfriend, she broke up with him and Lee came along. In 2 months Aina was pregnant and 6 months later they got married.
Look at Barney and Delilah, got married when Delilah was already 5 months pregnant.
Look at Ayza and Ted, their son was already 1 year old when they got married.
It runs in our family, dear wife of mine. That is the way life is.
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09.03.06
Posted in Articles, Polygamy, Marriage Promotion at 10:03 pm by goodsamaritan
From the September 03, 2006 frontpage comment of www.angryharry.com
Warren Steed Jeffs Arrested. Warren Steed Jeffs had been on the run for more than a year. Rumors had him hiding out in Texas, Canada, Mexico and any number of safe houses across the West. No one but his closest followers knew for sure.
He made the FBI’s Ten Most Wanted list.
The FBI’s Ten Most Wanted!?
It seems that those suspected of sexual misconduct are nowadays considered to be the equivalent of murderers and terrorists who kill people!
But, of course, the fact that Warren Steed Jeffs is a polygamist probably has something to do with all the hoo-hah; though, for the life of me, I cannot actually see what is wrong with polygamy; if this is what people want to do.
People can have all sorts of relationships these days. They can live together in multiple-partner situations. They can have sex with either gender - or both! Women can have sex - and children - with different men. Men can have sex - and children - with many women. All these things are legal. So why is there such a huge fuss when it comes to polygamy?
What is the big deal!?
Indeed, how can it be legal for a man to impregnate four different women and then scoot off to find a fifth, and yet illegal for a man to commit himself to, say, two women by marrying them!?
Similarly, how can it be legal for a woman to have children with four different fathers and then scoot off to find a fifth, and yet illegal for a woman to commit herself to, say, two men by marrying them!?
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09.02.06
Posted in Articles, Polygamy, Marriage Promotion at 11:38 am by goodsamaritan
A forum thread in www.manilatonight.com asked if you would want to be a stay at home mom or a career woman.
Here are my choice cuts from those who experienced career mothers.
Uchisy said:
i’d prefer being a houswife, my mom wasnt there for me when she worked…
And this is what I had to say:
My mother was a career / business woman. She sucked as a mom, basically because she had no time for us.
My wife is a career woman. She sucks as a mom, because she has no mommy skills, she has no housewife skills, and she has no motherly attitude, she cannot cook, and she has no time for me as a husband, and she has no time for the children.
You CAN NEVER HAVE IT ALL. You cannot be present at the same time and same place.
Let this be my RANT against the career women in my life.
Other than the biology of giving birth…
You ALL SUCKED as mothers.
My wife needs 3 yayas and 1 full time cook to compensate for her absence as a mother.
My thought: “Career women should be relegated to 2nd wives in a Polygamous (multiple marriage) arrangement in a household, the full time Housewife shouled be uplifted and honored as the 1ST WIFE.”
Then lordraven12 sighed:
“You can’t do anything about it, that’s the way life is… (women work today).”
My reply to that is:
Actually I can do something about it in my children’s generation: Career women are banned from marrying my sons unless they are 2nd wives. 1st wives will always be HOUSE WIVES.
And my daughters will be marrying men who have the finances to allow my daughters to be #1 and be THE HOUSE WIFE.
So there you have it. We have recognized the problem, we will not make the same mistakes. Career women are not suitable first wives and suck at mothering. Career women can bring in the money, but cannot run the home.
The original manilatonight thread can be found here.
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07.30.06
Posted in Articles, Marriage Promotion at 9:40 pm by goodsamaritan
Some people think I am crazy why I want my children to be registered under Philippine Islam.
What I am really after is for my children to have the option of polygamy available to them if and when they ever see this advantageous to them whether these are my daughters or my sons.
If Polygamous Christianity was easily available in this country, it would be a good option for my children too.
The real score is that forced monogamy only imposed on Islam transforms the people in it to become liberals accepting prostitution, contraception, mistressing, co-habitation and non-family formation. Take for example urban Turkey. I’ve been there. Seen it. Urban Turks are as Islamic as urban Americans say they are Christian.
My brother in law is living in… having unmarried sex… with his sexy half turkish islamic girlfriend. Where is the Islamic or Christian religion in that arrangement?
So the battle of ideologies can therefore be seen as not between Christianity and Islam, but on Monogamy only vs Polygamy possible cultures.
Another step in the deduction process:
“The family, because it promotes self-reliance, is the bulwark of individual liberty against the incursions of an oppressive state.
In the light of that, attempts to destroy the traditional families (monogamous or polygamous) is not just irresponsible, it is a sinister attempt to recast our society so that the state — not mothers and fathers — takes the dominant role in bringing up children.”
This is the worldwide totalitarian goal. The empire, the governments, the media control the minds of our children.
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07.19.06
Posted in Articles, Depopulation Problem, Pro-life Issues, Contraception, Marriage Promotion at 5:27 am by goodsamaritan
A few paragraphs from the booklet “Sexuality & TV: Enlightening the Practitioner and the Viewer” by Probe Production and the Ford Foundation (2004) shows some really dumb contradictions in the backward progress of human life imposed by the perception of a global economy or global media culture.
On page 4:
“In small, relatively isolated societies - and there are almost none of them left - life’s passages are uncomplicated. Parenting starts early and families survive off the land, with the help of an extended kinship system. Remember that until 1988, our laws actually allowed girls to marry at age 14 and the boys at 16.
Today, life is very different. We are all part of a global cash economy and raising a family involves many more responsibilities, making early pregnancies and early marriages unacceptable. Both males and females are postponing marriage so they can build their careers before starting a family.
Advances in the medical sciences have also made us more conscious of the risks involved with teenage pregnancies and parenting - young girls literally have one foot in the grave then they become pregnant. If the mother and child survive the difficult child-bearing, there are many other obstacles to overcome. Children of very young parents face many more risks for health problems, and even early death.”
These are the basic assumptions, the founding theories of this book and what the imperialists have brainwashed the people with. What a load of crap. I will explain.
The book highlights that in the Philippines in 2004, television is the #1 educator and deemed most credible form of media at almost 70% with a penetration rate of almost 100%. No wonder people have gotten dumb and dumber.
The first paragraph above says that life was much simpler… and easier… before imperialist times. Women were permitted to marry by law beginning age 14 (until 1988). Not so ancient people correctly married, had sex, became pregnant, became parents in the teenage years. Those who today are shocked at such statements of fact are truly uneducated, ignorant and intolerant.
The global CREDIT economy has made life more difficult for people who are brainwashed. They see marriage and starting a family as a bothersome obstacle in their success in life and set marriage as a very low priority. Reproduction is sacrificed via the use of all forms of contraception including abortion disguised in the book as the doublespeak term “reproductive health”.
The so called advances in medical sciences… western pharmaceutical medicine… do their scaremongering technique by convincing women that getting pregnant is a GRAVE DISEASE… the term they use is “having one foot in the grave” (while one is pregnant). More loads of brainwashing bullsh*t.
It is clear that today’s people are a sexually repressed people. The true, non-political, biological calling is to begin sex at 14 for girls and 16 for boys. Through the machinations, branding, and miseducation tools of the imperialists, true sexuality is suppressed and sabotaged under the international euphemism of “reproductive health”. Thus 14, 15, 16, 17 years of age are now legally misclassified as minors and all forms of sex with people of this age is illegal. These ages are today prohibited from marriage. But the hypersexualized media bombards these age groups with sexual images. The perverse solution of the imperialists is to impose contraception on our people to suppress our true reproductive calling.
The book talks about the imperialist concept of “reproductive rights” but all that is a coverup for contraceptive promotion. The imperialists have lobbied congress to make it illegal / denied the reproductive rights, for then legal ages of 14-17 to have sex or get married. Reproductive rights advocates promote contraception and at the same time condemns those who choose not to use contraception as being “denied reproductive rights” or closed minded. More doublespeak.
So far the imperialist depopulation lobby has succeeded. Marrying ages have been raised. Marriage is now passe. Fertility rates have come crashing down to negative levels. Contraception has made this happen. Less Filipino children are born.
The imperialists see Filipinos as cockroaches to be exterminated. Plain and simple pest control techniques are implemented.
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07.10.06
Posted in Contraception, Marriage Promotion at 10:15 pm by goodsamaritan
I was with a friend today and I noticed he wore a silver ring on his left forefinger.
I asked what it was and he said it was his connection ring. He and his girlfriend has been living in for some time now and she suggested they get a connection ring to symbolize their belonging to one another.
So it is like marriage right? An engagement? No! Hush… my friend says his girlfriend is too young at 19.
Well I responded that 18 was the beginning of the legal age to get married.
But no… do not call it marriage, do not call it engagement.
These young people want to use new words to describe their live-in arrangement.
The ring even has a date etched when they first confessed their love for one another.
Call it a connection… ok? Don’t ask stupid questions like engagement or marriage. No children planned. They say they are too young at 19 and 26. They live in the same condominium.
I think its just contraceptive sex.
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07.02.06
Posted in Depopulation Problem, Polygamy, Marriage Promotion at 11:27 pm by goodsamaritan
Today’s average woman in the big city has an average of 1.7 children. In 20 years it is reasonable to expect 1 child per woman.
This is outrageous and unacceptable for the future of my children.
One option is to move out of the city into the provinces where children are still made in adequate quantites.
The additional option is to be open to polygamy… just in case.
Just in case a wife a son chooses is infertile.
Just in case a wife a son chooses refuses to have more than 1 child.
Just in case a wife a son chooses resorts to contraception and is engulfed in the contraceptive culture.
The common case in 20 years is 1 child per woman in the city. If my son was unlucky enough to marry an average woman, I then only wind up with 1 grandchild from that son. This by all pronatal angles is unacceptable.
This is why I suggest my sons be registered as islamic. Under Philippine law, Islamic people are allowed their freedom of religion to marry according to their religious beliefs. Islam allows up to 4 wives. A son of mine marrying 4 average women winds up producing 4 grandchildren for us. A couple of decades ago, 1 woman could easily and gladly produce 6 or more children, a time when I can agree monogamy may be seen as acceptable to my sons. But the beginning of this 21st century is the darkest of times for reproduction.
We fathers should be prepared to do what must be done. The polygamy option is no longer there merely to satisfy one’s carnal desires as pervert monogamists insinuate. The polygamy option is now vital to avoid imminent family extinction.
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07.01.06
Posted in Polygamy, Marriage Promotion at 10:23 am by goodsamaritan
Q: If a wife refuses to have sexual relations with her husband, is she being unfaithful to the marriage contract? Although I have no intention of divorcing my wife, I believe that her unwillingness to honor the marriage contract is the same as breaking the marriage contract, thus grounds for divorce.
She has no physical reason for denying the conjugal relationship. The present reason is that there are too many other things which need to be done. Over the years it has ranged from mood complaints to protesting that it wasn’t the right of the husband to demand or expect anything. She has stated that it isn’t fair to expect such things if she doesn’t feel like it.
I have tried everything. She won’t agree to counseling of any kind and any books or tapes I suggest are viewed as being pushy on my part.
Now she has discovered that her husband is battling sexual temptations and is coming down hard on him for not being mentally faithful. She exhibits a great deal of self-righteous contempt and offers up how bitter she is that he has such temptations.
Should I again state for the 1,000th time that I feel neglected, abused, trapped and bitter?
I love her and I won’t leave her. But this is not my fault. She is, in fact, responsible for my unreasonable temptations. I have two children and am a minister with a church and a wife who doesn’t see any obligations. What should I do?
I’m bitter. I’m trapped. I guess this is just my cross to bear.
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