Finance is about, can he afford this new woman, your daughter? How many children does he have with other women? How much alimony is he currently paying from previous marriages? Does he want more children? Or horrors, is he into your daughter for mere sex and companionship?

Health. Around their late 30s, and 40s men these days usually come out with their health problems. Some of them are not built as well as they were in their 20s. And they may not be as horny as they were in their 20s. Are their sperm still produced at a healthy rate? Horrors if that man has had a vasectomy and your daughter never asked! Demand a sperm count, see if he’s able!

More on health is on what medication is he on these days? What’s his drug trajectory? For example he could be diabetic and he’s starting on dabetic drugs and a few years more drugs and injections and then impotency, etc.

Did you know that there are healthy long lived people that never do drugs? Maintain healthy youthful bodies? I know so because I’ve discovered the fountain of youth myself. Follow me in my www.curemanual.com and the forum I help moderate www.rawpaleoforum.com , this is where it’s at. Health to the core. Hard core. Which results in very fertile, very healthy, beautiful people… until old age. What old age?

I have since then vowed that this victimization of our mothers ends with my wife’s generation. My children and my grandchildren will not suffer the same commercialized victimized common fate.

Now comes a film by actress Ricki Lake, similarly victimized by commercial birthing.

Birth: it’s a miracle. A rite of passage. A natural part of life. But more than anything, birth is a business. Compelled to find answers after a disappointing birth experience with her first child, actress Ricki Lake recruits filmmaker Abby Epstein to examine and question the way American women have babies. The film interlaces intimate birth stories with surprising historical, political and scientific insights and shocking statistics about the current maternity care system. When director Epstein discovers she is pregnant during the making of the film, the journey becomes even more personal. Should most births be viewed as a natural life process, or should every delivery be treated as a potentially catastrophic medical emergency?

For the purposes of pronatalism, having more children, we need to find a safe, cheap and reliable method of giving birth. The book Healing our Children by Rami Nagel comes close.

Watch the trailer of The Business of Being Born, then go watch the whole film. Then buy the book Healing our Children. Give birth to many, many children, safe, cheap, reliable.

When selecting a woman for a mate, companion, wife, it is very important to not lose track of our primary objective in life, which is to make more life. Sure a woman of your liking may seem very pretty, but beauty is useless and pointless if she is unwilling to bear your children.

The problem is males still run on pure instinct. Young males look for the prettiest thing. In the old days, the prettiest thing also engaged in reproductive sex which led to children and the raising of children. Nowadays many women are taught to engage in contraceptive sex with abortion as a backup. Women are taught that raising one’s own children is pathetic so they strive to work at anything other than raising their own children. Leave children to be raised by professional strangers paid to raise children.

Then there is the problem of rampant un-health. As people have degenerated through the generations due to bad habits, bad food, knowing all the bad health practices as dictated by commercial television, radio and magazines. Their capabilities to bear children are extremely diminished. Many are infertile, many cannot bring a pregnancy to term.

Choosing a woman these days is a very delicate thing. You must make clear your objectives. You have the health, the wealth and the will to make children and your choice of women must meet your wishes. Birds of the same feather flock together. Seek the right woman and you will find her.

The natural scheme of things is that males and females are attracted to one another. They have sexual intercourse, females become pregnant. Children are born. Children are raised to become adults life goes on.

In the natural scheme of things, healthy men are sexually active when called upon for action. Women have a cycle where they are interested in sex when the time is “right”. That right time is when she is healthy and willing to bear children. A pregnant female is not interested in any more sex, nor should she be having sex, she is already pregnant. Do you understand?

Once a female has given birth, she needs to breast feed her little one for some 2 years and stick close to her baby. At this time there is no desire for children. And if there is no desire for children, no sex is desired.

She disagreed with this piece with her arguments below:

It is true that the natural cycle of reproduction works in such a way that most people are heterosexual and thus attracted to people of the opposite gender. In the absence of contraception, sexual intercourse is likely to result in pregnancy.

Everything after that is a complete misunderstanding of female sexuality. Are women more likely to desire sex during their most fertile times? Perhaps, maybe slightly. It varies depending on the woman. It is not as if women go into heat like dogs. Most women don’t even know when they ovulate. Women have and enjoy sex throughout their cycle, not just when they are fertile.

Pregnant and nursing women still desire sex. In fact, some pregnant women desire sex even more because of the higher blood flow to the genital area and the influx of hormones. Later in pregnancy, sex can become awkward because of the woman’s large uterus, but it can and is still done. Nursing women have sex as well. If they have less it is because they don’t feel their body is as sexy or because caring for their child has made them sleep deprived.

One other thing: You speak as if sex is purely for procreation – as if a pregnant woman SHOULD not want sex because the “mission” has already been accomplished. That is a ridiculous and offensive. You say: “A pregnant female is not interested in any more sex, nor should she be having sex, she is already pregnant.” That is patently wrong.

So I had to go and teach Pronatal 101 basics: How to make more babies by optimizing sexual activity

This section shows the recommendations of a cure for all diseases altruistic healer.

Sexual activities are pleasurable and desirable because nature made it so for human life to procreate.

From an altruistic healer and pronatalist perspective, I want people to have SAFE pregnancies, HEALTHY pregnancies, SUCCESSFUL pregnancies.  You will have to observe that today in the 21st century, FERTILITY RATES are at ALL TIME LOWS, which will include many MISCARRIAGES and skyrocketing INFERTILITY RATES due to BOTH:

CONTRACEPTIVE MENTALITY

and

UNHEALTHY CONSTITUTIONS of humans in general

The basics of human health are twisted and hidden by the current western medical pharmaceutical monopoly of people’s minds.

Due to contraceptive mentality, abuse of sexual advertising, and a twisted medical obgyn professions, too much sexual activity is expended by a majority of young people leading to enervation (too much stimulation).  The side effect is that young people, who today are toxic because of the wrong food pyramid and marketed junk lifestyle food and personal care products are ejecting lots of toxic waste and getting sickly and infertile.

The sexual side effect is that the reproductive organs… turned to pleasure organs… like some drug addiction… becomes an OUTLET OF TOXIC WASTE.  So much so that a very large, unquantified amount of MISCARRIAGES today is caused by this TOXICITY.

When a woman is already pregnant, OBGYNs recommend more sexual activity until almost birth… it fits their $$$ greedy medical model, as more problems can and will come out and need more $$$ servicing.  From the point of view of couples who have long wanted children, this extra sexual activity is a BIG RISK for miscarriages given the TOXICITY and waste disposal through the reproductive organs of TOXIC PEOPLE.

I have been teaching this FACT at http://www.fertilityhelp.net and at the nurturing guide in http://www.curemanual.com

This is what I say as OPTIMAL use of sexual reproductive capabilities of people.  This recommendation MAXIMIZES the health of couples.  MAXIMIZES the FERTILITY.  MAXIMIZES the health of babies, MAXIMIZES the fertility rates.

It is all about BENEFIT, maximum fertility, maximum chances of success for healthy mothers and healthy babies, maximizing PRONATALITY.

A pause of sexual activity during pregnancy and recovery  regenerates the sexual tension / potential between couples and the FRUIT of such potential energy maximizes fertility for THE NEXT reproductive attempt.  This is how you make many children.  This is how couples of olden times were able to produce 7 children or more per woman.  This is Prolife, Pronatal, education hands on.

Sex is like eating.  Sex at the right time and quantity is great, it is wonderful.  In excess, and in the wrong times and the wrong kind of sex, sex can be detrimental, just like eating.

Use this knowledge wisely.

This discussion can be found at the Pro-Life Philippines forum.

We must know many things that used to come in naturally to our ancestors.  Like what is good food and what makes people healthy.  I recommend you look to the website www.curemanual.com so you know what it takes to become healthy.

To make babies, to overcome infertility, you must look into www.fertilityhelp.net

The next topic I need to learn and sorry to have missed is natural childbirth, easy delivery.  It seems humans have been domesticated too long and degraded too long to be able to give birth naturally and easily.  This is a big stumbling block.  We as a family must learn by heart how to do natural childbirth.  How to choose a natural childbirth practitioner.

All our knowledge about health is no good when at the point of birth we are dependent on the gods of western medicine whose aim is to medicalize childbirth and slap a big fat bill in your wallet, to do this they promote c-sections so much.  C-sections immediately sabotage anything we have worked for so hard.  Our women are damaged, our children are damaged.  Our women are immediately limited in the number of children she can give birth do and our money is drained.

Some of those lying in clinics could be big fat lyers… population control centers if you will… with poorly trained staff of flunking midwives causing untold deaths and injury to mothers and children.

It is the hilot who does home service that is needed.  They give superior service, knowledge, wisdom, experience, the whole family, everyone must know what is involved in natural childbirth.  I promise you, this is my next educational challenge.

The Philippine fertility rates boomed in the 1960s, born on the backs of hilots, natural home birth experts… their knowledge will not be lost… I will document them for everyone to benefit from.

One thing in common is the search of altruistic truth in health. No money interests. They are my personal blogs. For myself, for my children, for my extended family.

You may vehemently disagree with what I write in those blogs, I don’t care. I didn’t write those things for you. Just be happy I’m freely sharing my knowledge which is really meant just for my descendants.

What? You think I’d teach my children crap? What? You think I care what industry or corporate profits I shake up? Big fat deal. You don’t get my family’s business, so what? We’re just one family, me and my descendants. Your industry isn’t missing much. There are other suckers out there. Just count us out.

I am happy to report that true health has brought us these fine babies. True health has been bringing us happiness, the still sick people will never see the connection that many times their anger, depression and plain unhappiness is also physiologically rooted.

More money! With the true cures, true health comes energy and beauty, a winning combination for business and profits. With vibrant health I can now participate in more socializations, more business deals, more meetings, now smarter and work faster and still have time with the children.

Imagine, I’m no longer fat. I’m now lean. And now I’m working on beauty. No, I’m not vain. I let true health do the job of making us as beautiful as we can potentially become.

The next time you see a handsome healthy man on a television or billboard commercial selling you alcoholic beverages and the junk food that comes with it; don’t believe it.  He’s just a paid model.  He did not become healthy cramming down unhealthy food in his throat.

Yes, one of the puppies they say was injured by one of our cars while parking in the driveway.  I was busy addressing my hunger and thirst.  What really got to me were all these women… while the puppy was crying… yakking away the whole 30 minutes… DOING NOTHING!!!

And what is worse, while they have done NOTHING to help or check on the poor puppy, one casually suggests the possibility of MERCY KILLING… euthanasia!!!

This one takes the cake.  You have not seen, nor helped, but just yakked away the time, then suggest mercy killing to a puppy who probably just got a bloody nose???

Of course, it had to take a man to get things done.

So I take the puppy to a nearby vet’s house.  He sees the puppy, checks that no bones have been broken.  Says that maybe the puppy did just get a bloody nose, it could be worse, but we will just have to check in the morning.  Vet says to wash the poppy so blood doesn’t clot his nostrils, give a mucus suppressant and some pedialite for hydration, the puppy got stressed and might suffer from dehydration.  Pedialite unavailable in the neighborhood drug store so instead I got orange flavoured gatorade.

Will the puppy survive?  Without the mercy killers… probably; I will let you know.

Everyone has a right to be angry at the mis-education of their own children.

What if your school was into food mis-education? It taught your children to drink softdrinks, fastfoods, packaged chips and cooked with MSG? If your school taught your child how to chew his food properly to taste each and every item in his mouth… then spit it out so he can taste each and every type of food in a buffet… your child is being taught to be bullimic!

So why is food vs sex a good comparison? Both are vital to the survival of your family. Great food education gives you proper nutrition, makes you healthy… as nature intended. Great sex education lets your child reproduce, form families… as nature intended.

Those who learn the wrong notions about food: become ugly, unhealthy and die of an early, unnatural, sickly death.

Those with the wrong notions of sex: FEAR the conception of their own babies, and become failures at reproduction. The proof is in the high abortion rates and below replacement fertility rate statistics WORLDWIDE!

See my piece about pornographic sex mis-education… semen is splattered everywhere else rather than its proper natural place… in the vagina.

Where to get correct sex education? See the helpful people at www.prolife.org.ph

The answer is insemination: the ejaculation of semen deep inside the vagina.  Semen contains hormones, sperm, genetic information.  Information that is subconsciously used by women to determine who their man is.

Prostitutes today usually use condoms.  They feel no bond with their customers.  But the regular ones or the favored ones have the benefit of insemination, real attempts at making life.

Boyfriend girlfriend condom relationships have no special bond until and unless inseminations have taken place.  It becomes easy for the girlfriend to throw away boyfriend if he has not inseminated her for a long time.

Married people continuously have sex, and not all acts lead to pregnancy.  But the bonding takes place with insemination.

How many times have you heard your local pro-lifer tell you that the best kind of sex is genital, without a condom, ejaculation deep inside?  This is the biological reason why.