People fail to look at the obvious biological facts. Infidelity meaning is just that, they just have an instinct to make more babies. Sex is a basic instinct to make more babies. So stop with all the emotional gibberish and get down to the biological facts so you can deal with it better.

I have been observing friends in anguish over this very simple matter of infidelity and its meaning. Why they are so wrapped up in their religious fantasies and moral shenanigans. Basic instinct, sex, has no morals. And the parties involved would rather burn in hell than not get what they want. What they want is more babies, sex is just the action that is required.

Take the case of a young mother with 2 children, married to a foreigner husband. Wife wants more babies, husband foreigner does not… he comes from a very contraceptive culture. Wife disagrees. Wife gets local male “lover” / baby maker.

Foreigner husband has young Filipina wife and has 1 child and 1 child only. Foreigner has 4 children elsewhere, his former wife, an old girl friend. Young wife goes bad, gets in fights with him, goes out at night partying… and rapes her husband as often as she can. She calms down… she’s 3 months pregnant. Peace and quiet for the husband. Just hope it’s his.

Wife has 2 kids with husband. Wife gets ligated / had her tubes tied. Husband then starts coming home 4am – 5am every single day. And what should he come home to? A wife who can only offer contraceptive sex? A wife who did not consult him but selfishly thought of herself only as she did not want any more children? What makes her think her husband only wants contraceptive sex for the rest of his life?

Humans have this basic instinct that sex is for making babies. And no modern contraceptive practices are going to demolish this basic instinct.

- Sex gets old with the same partner after a few months of no babies.
- Sex is tons of times more exciting if there is that possibility of babies.

Humans are survivors. Contraceptive men and women who do not want to have any more children will be left eating the dusts of infidelity by their partners who just want to have more babies.

And this brings me to the decisions that these couples must take. Again for the benefit of children. It is detrimental to keep divorcing, and divorcing and divorcing. Who’s going to take care of your mutual children?

The solution is to keep it all together. Addition, without subtraction.

This is a new age contraceptive society problem. The expectations are ridiculous. Just because you lead contraceptive lives where you get to have unlimited sexual intercourse without getting pregnant is just un-natural. Nature didn’t make sex that way. Unlimited sex without babies is monotonous not worth it sex… It gets old pretty quickly.

Wife had a hysterectomy after 2 children. Husband keeps his monogamous vows. Wife gets hornier and looks for an additional sexual partner… says husband should get his additional sex partner too.

Husband is devastated why this is happening to him and thinks of divorcing his wife. Wife can’t do any “harm”, her core being tells her she wants more babies. so she will have sex and sex and sex… but it will never ever be possibly due to her hysterectomy. And this is what her religious husband needs to understand. Keep it together. Her sexual thing will soon pass, she’s in her mid 40s.

Life isn’t black or white. If you are truly pro-family and pro-marriage, pro-life, you accept your situations and biological realities and still keep your living children at the top of your priorities. It’s addition without subtraction. Let the reproducers have at it. Men and women do not necessarily have equal number of babies between them. Live with that reality.

The happy ending of this blog post is that it benefits your mutual living children. Divorcing or completely dumping existing children to grandparents is foul and reeks of complete selfishness. We are educated humans and we need to overcome short sighted jealousies, the meaning of infidelity is they just want more babies… their very souls are craving for more babies. Those who have made their “quota” may selfishly refuse to understand this. But think of that time when you still hadn’t reached your baby quota. Now you know. Think.

Documentary from a Christian / secular point of view recognize and somewhat admire the success of the propagation of Islam. Not by evangelization or conquest, but via birth rates, higher fertility rates. And who to thank for the Islamic success? Islamic women! Yes, Islamic women have baby making power. Islamic women practice both monogamy and polygamy. Islamic women are less contraceptive. And it seems Islamic women are more family oriented. Success, success, success!

This is a wake up call to Christians or those who think they are Christian. These Christians can only think about evangelizing to others, but they cannot even shepherd their own flock. Christian / post christian / secular women make far less babies. Christian baby making systems suck, inferior. Christian women mostly suck at baby making. That is the wake up call.

Seems Islamic women are happier? Islamic family system makes for happier women? Islamic diets are more nutritious? Islamic women have more resolve to make more babies and raise more babies? Islamic women have better… higher quality sex? Or is it that Islamic women do not believe in the kind of sexual promiscuity being promoted in Christian / post Christian / secular societies? Maybe Islamic women are treated BETTER? Islamic women are happier?

Call to action? Make more babies. Contraception and promiscuity don’t work and only serve to obliterate families.

So, is it time to say, if you can’t beat em, join em?

Stop hating the Muslim women and admire them and point out what seems to be working for them. Maybe if your culture adopted some key aspects of Muslim women, you can still save your own culture.

Read the cry for help of a friend to show studies that birth control pills are BAD for women’s health they are likely to suffer a myriad of lifetime disabilities and injuries.

andvanwyk asked:

Does anyone have any decent links showing the dangers of birth control pills? A friend of mine’s little sister is being forced on it by her parents. She’s 14 years old and might have to suffer a lifetime of gut dysbiosis etc. due to this, so we’d like to show the parents some good information and write ups about it before they jump head first into this decision.

and

ys answered:

you don’t need any links, it is all there in the fine print, either on the package or inside the package, just read side effects section, death is just one of the listed side effects.

Wow, talk about culture shock and Nazism. Nazi parents. Whatever happened to “FREEDOM” to choose… to be HEALTHY. Whatever happened to freedom to choose to have healthy natural reproductive baby making sex?

Oh I get it, in the 2011 contraceptive Nazi mindset, you can do any deviant sexual acts as long as you don’t get PREGNANT. As if PREGNANCY is the GREATEST EVIL IN THE WORLD!

There are loads of evidence against contraceptive birth control pills and related paraphernalia, drugs, hormones, patches, injectibles, etc. Here is a link to just one of them.

Just Say “No” to Birth Control Pills
By Carolyn Dean, M.D., N.D.

Being injured and dying and suffering at the hands of birth control pills is a BAD THING.

People need and want to reproduce, it is in our human nature… This is a GOOD THING. What needs to be done is to channel that reproductive life giving energy to something good. Marry off the children and have a family… this is a GOOD THING. At least you know who’s banging your daughter and you do approve of the guy banging your daughter… and you don’t call it banging anymore, it’s call making love… possibly making baby love… this is a GOOD THING. It’s what the ancient institution of marriage was for… Marriage is a GOOD THING. And parents get the bonus of becoming doting grandparents to nice cute grand kids. (or is having grandkids now out of fashion too? ) Babies and Grandchildren are GOOD THINGS.

The trick is, you don’t marry off a young girl to a young lad who has no financial ability. You can marry off the 18 year old girl to a 28-32 year old man who is well ready to settle down, makes a good living, can finance several children… this is a GOOD THING. The obscene culture of contraceptivizing children to contraceptively fornicate with fellow children hypergamously at the moment of their sexual awakening until their sexuality tapers off in their late 20s and 30s is just sick and obscene. And I’m saying this from a paleo diet and lifestyle health perspective.

No raw paleo dieter uber health buff will ever agree to these dangerous drugs called birth control pills. And for what? To worship at the feet of the contraceptive culture of PREGNANCY IS THE WORST THING IN THE WORLD that can happen to a teenage girl? So a sexually awakened healthy teenage girl is to be POISONED by proven track record very dangerous drugs so that her natural healthy sexuality is sabotaged so she can be temporarily neutered until she ages beyond her 30s and only then do you stop neutering her with these proven dangerous drugs so she can then “try” to make a baby?

In the twisted and evil contraceptive mindset of the 21st century, getting pregnant during the natural / biological / “God given” years of 14 to 28 are unacceptable TOO YOUNG ages. These ages are only fit for contraceptive sex since pregnancy and mothering at these ages are considered TOO YOUNG… and will supposedly DESTROY THE FUTURE of their daughters. Did you Christians know that God blessed Mary with the child Jesus at age 14? Or did you misread that and thought Mary was 40?

The brainwashing, the complete flipping, the complete opposite of GOOD and BAD and GOOD and EVIL is complete. 21st century people are bereft of any guidance. Yet you do not need to believe in the superstitions of deities when you follow HEALTH… TRUE HEALTH… as nature intended as your true GOD intended.

Being sexually awakened in the teenage years is NATURAL. It was only until 1990, that Philippine civil laws were changed to raise the marrying age from 14 to 18. Humans have not evolved that fast. 14 is a viable reproductive age, a sexual age. The peak reproductive ages of females is still around 18 to 24. Yet the twisted mindset of 2011 thinks getting married or getting pregnant between the ages 18 to 24 is the highest of tragedies for women!

All I care about is true health, the true nature of humans and the way our biology works. Living this life will be easier and in better harmony if you follow human biology and you adjust everything else. Instead of trying to twist human biology into something nature never intended it to go. You will and do get very bad consequences. Your women are sick, they slut around for many years, they become diseased and infertile, unmarried and alone. Of course this is all planned brainwashing programming by the powers that be circa NSSM 200. The brainwashing is complete. 1984 George Orwell was correct.

In case you missed it. Birth control pills are baaadddd for your health. Wish them on your enemies, not on your loved ones like your very own precious daughters.

The ridiculousness is there for everyone to see. WikiLeaks’ Julian Assange the leak report hero of the world is being brought down by the powers that be with a totally idiotic Swedish Feminist law for having sex without a condom!!! Have you ever heard of some law as RIDICULOUS as that???

Just goes to show how fantastically corrupt, insane, and communistic this world has become. False charges, false assumptions, false health ideas. Rooted at the false notion of HIV, AIDS and condoms… this law was based upon. AIDS is a scam if you don’t know it yet.

I will let Rita Watson explain the full story of how this frame up came to be. http://ritawatson.com/?p=1744

The latest celebrity scandal on the news these days is Philippine Security Adviser Chavit Singson 68 (many wives, many children) with one of his common law wives Che Tiongson 37 (bore 5 alleged children with Chavit) and her new boyfriend Richard Catral 38 (married with 2 kids). Since this is a ProNatal website we dissect and analyze according to primal human reproductive instincts.

Chavit is a well known rich and powerful patriarch, a pronatal patriarch with alleged several wives and many children. He is rumored to have a new wife every few years and move on and on. Chavit loves children and wants children. Chavit wants custody of his 5 children with Che, patriarchs are interested more in children than just sex. Sex is merely a tool to make children. Chavit was noted in saying in a private family party to his descendants to make and make babies… because we have lots of money. Isn’t that so nice?

If you are any intelligent male with any sanity left in you, you do not go out of your way provoking Chavit’s anger by attempting to inseminate any female in his alleged harem. As in primal human nature, the big bull will protect his genetic interests and will do whatever it takes to ward off foolish males from trying to reproduce with any of his alleged harem. Any patriarch invests and spends on his harem for his exclusive insemination to propagate his own genes.

Chavit stood up to the President of the Philippines Erap Estrada (on a different issue) and won that battle… do you think any lesser man like this foolish Richard Catral can stand a chance?

My analysis of Richard Catral is that he saw a beautiful woman and with his own good looks saw an opportunity to reproduce by attempting to inseminate Che. This is it, a sperm wars classic. Previous to the alleged beating of Che, she was inseminated by Chavit just the same. The sperm battle is on. Who will win out? Only a DNA test in the future will reveal the sperm wars winner.

The wild card is, is Che on birth control? Birth control technologies muddle the whole primal instincts scenario.

What is happening is a very easy, very classic case of genetic interests. Maybe Che merely needed a rest from birthing. When she got her rest from birthing… she is ready to be impregnated again, thus accepting new inseminators.

All those muddling the issue of primal human genetic interests is due to civilization, technology, political ideologies and twisted inhuman laws.

I would like to see a surprise pause to all this much publicized scandal with the announcement of a pregnancy. Then I want a Maury Show type genetic dna paternity test drama to show WHO IS THE FATHER.

The Human Primal instinct for genetic propagation is alive and well. Everyone wants to reproduce. Lots of inseminating happening… Look at this issue and just laugh at the rest of the side issues like human twisted written laws.

I think Richard Catral is the true victim here. My guess is Che did not tell him she belonged to the harem of Chavit Singson. Any guy in his right mind would stay away from Chavit’s women.

The depopulation agenda has been successful in brainwashing most people of the world today. Not only are people poor materially, but also physically and mentally. Women today are reluctant to give birth and raise children themselves for many reasons.

When selecting a woman for a mate, companion, wife, it is very important to not lose track of our primary objective in life, which is to make more life. Sure a woman of your liking may seem very pretty, but beauty is useless and pointless if she is unwilling to bear your children.

The problem is males still run on pure instinct. Young males look for the prettiest thing. In the old days, the prettiest thing also engaged in reproductive sex which led to children and the raising of children. Nowadays many women are taught to engage in contraceptive sex with abortion as a backup. Women are taught that raising one’s own children is pathetic so they strive to work at anything other than raising their own children. Leave children to be raised by professional strangers paid to raise children.

Then there is the problem of rampant un-health. As people have degenerated through the generations due to bad habits, bad food, knowing all the bad health practices as dictated by commercial television, radio and magazines. Their capabilities to bear children are extremely diminished. Many are infertile, many cannot bring a pregnancy to term.

Choosing a woman these days is a very delicate thing. You must make clear your objectives. You have the health, the wealth and the will to make children and your choice of women must meet your wishes. Birds of the same feather flock together. Seek the right woman and you will find her.

It is funny to see how many people today can be such narrow minded regarding the issue of the once and for many centuries a legal age to get married beginning 14 years of age. Where are the vive le difference attitudes? Different strokes for different folks? Do we all have to tow your communist line?

Hey, my natural calling to desire children was around 20 years old. I called for marriage by the time I was 25 but my then 22 year old wife to be was not “ready” at her age then. My sister got married at 23. My mother got married at 22. My grandmother got married at 19.

My friend’s mother got married at 14. It was legal during their time. And the family’s approved of it. A lot of visayans in the province of Samar have the tradition of marrying off their children at 14 and 15. Even today, in Islamic Philippine society, the minimum marrying age for islamic women is 16 years old.

I’m trying to tweak the minds of all you narrow minded nay sayers. Yes you, who would rather have teenagers exhaust their expected biological sexuality with unsatisfying condoms and poison birth control pills. Different strokes for different folks. DIVERSITY ROCKS…. not your uniformitarian COMMUNISM.

Do you call yourself a Christian? At what age did you think The Virgin Mary bore Jesus? She was 14 and to be married to Joseph. Oh, so now you call your Christian God a pedophile?

Raising the minimum marrying age in the Philippines from 14 to 18 was a BIG MISTAKE. It was pressure from the international community backed my hundreds of millions of dollars in depopulation funding by the imperialist governments. Now I hear the same funders and their idiot minions pushing to increase the minimum marrying age to 24. Tsk tsk tsk… People do not EVOLVE that fast.

This 15 year old has her reproductive instincts kicking in. But unfortunately for her, her communist society will not approve. This is why she resorts to going “wild.” She will do what she needs to do to produce her baby.

In more conservative, wiser times, the people understood that there are women at this age that come to heat. This is why they accommodated these people into the institution of marriage. It’s just their time. It was time for her to have her baby, so LET HER. Marry her off to a nice man who also believed in marriage and also believed in babies.

Maybe the virgin Mary would have turned into something like this “wild” teen if she wasn’t married off during HER TIME.

I would like to repeat again my call to all you narrow minded communists. Different strokes for different folks. Let us not oppress the people who’s reproductive calling comes at 14 or 15 years of age.

In the Pro-Life Philippines forum, a curious American lady posted criticisms regarding my piece: Contraception harms people, society and civilization. Her criticism was on the following section of my article:

The natural scheme of things is that males and females are attracted to one another. They have sexual intercourse, females become pregnant. Children are born. Children are raised to become adults life goes on.

In the natural scheme of things, healthy men are sexually active when called upon for action. Women have a cycle where they are interested in sex when the time is “right”. That right time is when she is healthy and willing to bear children. A pregnant female is not interested in any more sex, nor should she be having sex, she is already pregnant. Do you understand?

Once a female has given birth, she needs to breast feed her little one for some 2 years and stick close to her baby. At this time there is no desire for children. And if there is no desire for children, no sex is desired.

She disagreed with this piece with her arguments below:

It is true that the natural cycle of reproduction works in such a way that most people are heterosexual and thus attracted to people of the opposite gender. In the absence of contraception, sexual intercourse is likely to result in pregnancy.

Everything after that is a complete misunderstanding of female sexuality. Are women more likely to desire sex during their most fertile times? Perhaps, maybe slightly. It varies depending on the woman. It is not as if women go into heat like dogs. Most women don’t even know when they ovulate. Women have and enjoy sex throughout their cycle, not just when they are fertile.

Pregnant and nursing women still desire sex. In fact, some pregnant women desire sex even more because of the higher blood flow to the genital area and the influx of hormones. Later in pregnancy, sex can become awkward because of the woman’s large uterus, but it can and is still done. Nursing women have sex as well. If they have less it is because they don’t feel their body is as sexy or because caring for their child has made them sleep deprived.

One other thing: You speak as if sex is purely for procreation – as if a pregnant woman SHOULD not want sex because the “mission” has already been accomplished. That is a ridiculous and offensive. You say: “A pregnant female is not interested in any more sex, nor should she be having sex, she is already pregnant.” That is patently wrong.

So I had to go and teach Pronatal 101 basics: How to make more babies by optimizing sexual activity

This section shows the recommendations of a cure for all diseases altruistic healer.

Sexual activities are pleasurable and desirable because nature made it so for human life to procreate.

From an altruistic healer and pronatalist perspective, I want people to have SAFE pregnancies, HEALTHY pregnancies, SUCCESSFUL pregnancies.  You will have to observe that today in the 21st century, FERTILITY RATES are at ALL TIME LOWS, which will include many MISCARRIAGES and skyrocketing INFERTILITY RATES due to BOTH:

CONTRACEPTIVE MENTALITY

and

UNHEALTHY CONSTITUTIONS of humans in general

The basics of human health are twisted and hidden by the current western medical pharmaceutical monopoly of people’s minds.

Due to contraceptive mentality, abuse of sexual advertising, and a twisted medical obgyn professions, too much sexual activity is expended by a majority of young people leading to enervation (too much stimulation).  The side effect is that young people, who today are toxic because of the wrong food pyramid and marketed junk lifestyle food and personal care products are ejecting lots of toxic waste and getting sickly and infertile.

The sexual side effect is that the reproductive organs… turned to pleasure organs… like some drug addiction… becomes an OUTLET OF TOXIC WASTE.  So much so that a very large, unquantified amount of MISCARRIAGES today is caused by this TOXICITY.

When a woman is already pregnant, OBGYNs recommend more sexual activity until almost birth… it fits their $$$ greedy medical model, as more problems can and will come out and need more $$$ servicing.  From the point of view of couples who have long wanted children, this extra sexual activity is a BIG RISK for miscarriages given the TOXICITY and waste disposal through the reproductive organs of TOXIC PEOPLE.

I have been teaching this FACT at http://www.fertilityhelp.net and at the nurturing guide in http://www.curemanual.com

This is what I say as OPTIMAL use of sexual reproductive capabilities of people.  This recommendation MAXIMIZES the health of couples.  MAXIMIZES the FERTILITY.  MAXIMIZES the health of babies, MAXIMIZES the fertility rates.

It is all about BENEFIT, maximum fertility, maximum chances of success for healthy mothers and healthy babies, maximizing PRONATALITY.

A pause of sexual activity during pregnancy and recovery  regenerates the sexual tension / potential between couples and the FRUIT of such potential energy maximizes fertility for THE NEXT reproductive attempt.  This is how you make many children.  This is how couples of olden times were able to produce 7 children or more per woman.  This is Prolife, Pronatal, education hands on.

Sex is like eating.  Sex at the right time and quantity is great, it is wonderful.  In excess, and in the wrong times and the wrong kind of sex, sex can be detrimental, just like eating.

Use this knowledge wisely.

This discussion can be found at the Pro-Life Philippines forum.

A man is a wonderful thing. All that power, all that energy, all that intelligence. A man’s sexual instincts allows him to reproduce for the survival of his bloodline. Paired with an equally wonderful woman, wonderful offspring are produced.

But paired to a contraceptive woman and agreeing to her demands of contraception, he his demoted to a lowly snake slithering on the ground begging for sex. Phoooey. A man begging for sex is pathetic. Agreeing to contraceptive sex is pathetic. The contraceptive woman today is the most common type of woman. This is why society is dysfunctional. And this is no accident. Contraception is ingrained in today’s children, in the feminist manifestos, in marriage seminars. Some men get into marriage thinking it is open access to beautiful sex, instead submit to chains of contraception that enable a facade called monogamy.

There are many good men out there. Family oriented, family serving men. Most confronted with demands of contraception from women who demand monogamy. A few months later the contraceptive sexual activity gets old, stale and downright not worth it. It is not so different from aversion to sexual activity induced by infertility problems.
A man agreeing to contraception is not a man. He is a slave to his woman. He is a slave to his sexual desires. The 21st century are feminist times. Men have been castrated by contraception. Contraception is the core of the feminist religion.

Men can break the feminist stranglehold by swearing off all forms of contraception with his women. If she wants contraception, then let her be. Never beg. Never be enslaved.  There are better women.

The natural scheme of things is that males and females are attracted to one another. They have sexual intercourse, females become pregnant. Children are born. Children are raised to become adults life goes on.

In the natural scheme of things, healthy men are sexually active when called upon for action. Women have a cycle where they are interested in sex when the time is “right”. That right time is when she is healthy and willing to bear children. A pregnant female is not interested in any more sex, nor should she be having sex, she is already pregnant. Do you understand?

Once a female has given birth, she needs to breast feed her little one for some 2 years and stick close to her baby. At this time there is no desire for children. And if there is no desire for children, no sex is desired.

Now the civilization and other means of organization have come up with marriage. A man for every child to ensure that children are better taken cared of. A man and his whole family plus the woman and her family is a pretty good idea. Since a woman may only be interested in sex every 2 to 3 years it makes no sense for a man to with hold his sexuality in those 2 to 3 years where a woman is not sexually available, nor should it make sense to rush a woman and have additional children when she is not healthy nor ready yet. So it was and still is natural for men to have multiple wives. Everyone was happy with this arrangement. The man’s family had more offspring through their men. And the women could pick the best men in their village to fertilize them. Polygamy was the norm and everyone was happy.

Then an imperialist civilization arose and through their primitive monetary system and contraceptive technology had the dumb idea to impose government business partnerships called marriage and made it exclusive and unnatural. They called this invention monogamy. An artificial construct founded on contraceptive herbs and technology. They made it law that men and women can marry only one at a time. If they wanted a new partner, they needed to divorce their old partner. In the old days, you just added a new wife and everyone was happy. Common divorces made people unhappy in the empire and eventually the concept of marriage became moot and no one wanted to have anything with that government partnership called marriage.

Fast forward 2000 years later today in my country. Monogamy is made possible through contraceptive technology. Women become sexual toys, sexual receptacles, available to give and receive sexual pleasure any time with minimum possibilities of pregnancy. In government marriage, men are given the unnatural burden to have sex with only one woman because with contraceptive technology, that woman, his wife can supposedly fill all his sexual entertainment wants.

But this is unnatural. Millions of years of evolution cannot be enforced by man made laws policing sexual behavior. What happens today is that contraceptive technology has debased sexuality into a religion of entertainment, of pleasure, instead of sex being a means for reproduction. This sexual repression has led to enormous industries serving the contraceptive side effects. Prostitution is the all encompassing side effect. Millions of women are now prostitutes for money, for food, for love, for free. Millions of men have been stunted of their maturities by submitting to contraceptive sex.

Millions of women feel they are goddesses, they control a man through his contraceptive penis. What a shame. What a low down shame people have gone today. Men submitting to women and thanking them for sex? Give me a break.
Top grade males are always in high demand. Top grade males do not submit to contraceptive slavery. A woman who partners with top grade males want their sperm, they demand it, top material to make their babies with.

And punishing males for their non-compliance to monogamy?  What an an unnatural man made abomination of laws we are  living in.  Most wives cannot keep their end of the bargain.  Most of them don’t enjoy being sexual receptacles and have sex during times they don’t want to.  Contraceptive technology is imperfect and unhealthy in the first place.  Those health conscious women will merely abstain from sex.  And where does that leave their husbands?  Back to nature.

The idea of a 2nd wife, 3rd wife, 4th wife doesn’t sound so bad after all now.  What woman wants to give birth year after year after year?

First wife is pregnant, sexual relations stop and continue only when her child is 2 to 4 years old.  A 2nd wife may be a good idea, and when that wife becomes pregnant, a 3rd wife may be a good idea, then a 4th wife, then it is back to wife number 1 then 2, then 3 then 4.  Everyone is happy.

All that is needed today is a change in the monetary system and everyone should be happy.  If each and every child came with a guaranteed living fund, people would choose the natural way.  I’m dreaming.  The international money masters, the bankers would never want this.  They want the money and the power all to themselves.

Government monogamous only marriage is just one of their tools to control a hapless citizenry.