Today’s 21st century urban world is littered with reproductive incompetence. Contraceptive cultures, polluted environments, cooked foods and following the wrong food pyramid, pharma drugs and clueless doctors. Everything is conspiring to stop you from reproducing. Sometimes, many times a spouse is reproductively incompetent, some times I see the competent spouse merely a sheep bowing its head following the reproductive incompetence of the other.
So your spouse cannot have any more babies… but you can. Do something about it. Get a sperm donation. Get another wife. Get another woman to agree to give you and your wife a baby using your sperm. The possibilities are there… just stick to being pronatal – pro-your family – pro-your-bloodline… and you can see the obvious solution.
So I hear the standard lecture that aren’t you happy with the x number of children you’ve got already? And the answer is NO. Because we all have our hopes and dreams. Just because one partner is incompetent does not mean he or she should shatter YOUR pronatal dreams.
Life is about making more life, living life, giving life to newborns, raising new life on and on and on. We are pronatal. We just want to live.