11.11.08
How to make more babies by optimizing sexual activity
In the Pro-Life Philippines forum, a curious American lady posted criticisms regarding my piece: Contraception harms people, society and civilization. Her criticism was on the following section of my article:
The natural scheme of things is that males and females are attracted to one another. They have sexual intercourse, females become pregnant. Children are born. Children are raised to become adults life goes on.
In the natural scheme of things, healthy men are sexually active when called upon for action. Women have a cycle where they are interested in sex when the time is “right”. That right time is when she is healthy and willing to bear children. A pregnant female is not interested in any more sex, nor should she be having sex, she is already pregnant. Do you understand?
Once a female has given birth, she needs to breast feed her little one for some 2 years and stick close to her baby. At this time there is no desire for children. And if there is no desire for children, no sex is desired.
She disagreed with this piece with her arguments below:
It is true that the natural cycle of reproduction works in such a way that most people are heterosexual and thus attracted to people of the opposite gender. In the absence of contraception, sexual intercourse is likely to result in pregnancy.
Everything after that is a complete misunderstanding of female sexuality. Are women more likely to desire sex during their most fertile times? Perhaps, maybe slightly. It varies depending on the woman. It is not as if women go into heat like dogs. Most women don’t even know when they ovulate. Women have and enjoy sex throughout their cycle, not just when they are fertile.
Pregnant and nursing women still desire sex. In fact, some pregnant women desire sex even more because of the higher blood flow to the genital area and the influx of hormones. Later in pregnancy, sex can become awkward because of the woman’s large uterus, but it can and is still done. Nursing women have sex as well. If they have less it is because they don’t feel their body is as sexy or because caring for their child has made them sleep deprived.
One other thing: You speak as if sex is purely for procreation - as if a pregnant woman SHOULD not want sex because the “mission” has already been accomplished. That is a ridiculous and offensive. You say: “A pregnant female is not interested in any more sex, nor should she be having sex, she is already pregnant.” That is patently wrong.
So I had to go and teach Pronatal 101 basics: How to make more babies by optimizing sexual activity
This section shows the recommendations of a cure for all diseases altruistic healer.
Sexual activities are pleasurable and desirable because nature made it so for human life to procreate.
From an altruistic healer and pronatalist perspective, I want people to have SAFE pregnancies, HEALTHY pregnancies, SUCCESSFUL pregnancies. You will have to observe that today in the 21st century, FERTILITY RATES are at ALL TIME LOWS, which will include many MISCARRIAGES and skyrocketing INFERTILITY RATES due to BOTH:
CONTRACEPTIVE MENTALITY
and
UNHEALTHY CONSTITUTIONS of humans in general
The basics of human health are twisted and hidden by the current western medical pharmaceutical monopoly of people’s minds.
Due to contraceptive mentality, abuse of sexual advertising, and a twisted medical obgyn professions, too much sexual activity is expended by a majority of young people leading to enervation (too much stimulation). The side effect is that young people, who today are toxic because of the wrong food pyramid and marketed junk lifestyle food and personal care products are ejecting lots of toxic waste and getting sickly and infertile.
The sexual side effect is that the reproductive organs… turned to pleasure organs… like some drug addiction… becomes an OUTLET OF TOXIC WASTE. So much so that a very large, unquantified amount of MISCARRIAGES today is caused by this TOXICITY.
When a woman is already pregnant, OBGYNs recommend more sexual activity until almost birth… it fits their $$$ greedy medical model, as more problems can and will come out and need more $$$ servicing. From the point of view of couples who have long wanted children, this extra sexual activity is a BIG RISK for miscarriages given the TOXICITY and waste disposal through the reproductive organs of TOXIC PEOPLE.
I have been teaching this FACT at http://www.fertilityhelp.net and at the nurturing guide in http://www.curemanual.com
This is what I say as OPTIMAL use of sexual reproductive capabilities of people. This recommendation MAXIMIZES the health of couples. MAXIMIZES the FERTILITY. MAXIMIZES the health of babies, MAXIMIZES the fertility rates.
It is all about BENEFIT, maximum fertility, maximum chances of success for healthy mothers and healthy babies, maximizing PRONATALITY.
A pause of sexual activity during pregnancy and recovery regenerates the sexual tension / potential between couples and the FRUIT of such potential energy maximizes fertility for THE NEXT reproductive attempt. This is how you make many children. This is how couples of olden times were able to produce 7 children or more per woman. This is Prolife, Pronatal, education hands on.
Sex is like eating. Sex at the right time and quantity is great, it is wonderful. In excess, and in the wrong times and the wrong kind of sex, sex can be detrimental, just like eating.
Use this knowledge wisely.
This discussion can be found at the Pro-Life Philippines forum.
