I will tell you the truth why men “cheat”

This morning I came accross an idiotic yahoo article claiming survey results about why men “cheat.”  The title is Dating 101: The Truth About Why Men Cheat: Counselor M. Gary Neuman surveyed 200 cheating and noncheating husbands to get at the real reasons behind men’s infidelity.

They came up with stuff like:

48% of men rated emotional dissatisfaction as the primary reason they cheated.

66% of cheating men report feeling guilt during the affair.

77% of cheating men have a good friend who cheated.

40% of cheating men met the other woman at work.

Only 12% of cheating men said their mistress was more physically attractive than their wife.

Only 6% of cheating men had physical intimacy with a woman after meeting her that same day or night.

Of course this is all for some teenage and twenty something kids to consume.  They don’t know anything yet and will believe anything.  I say this is pop-culture garbage.

First I will define cheating according to what I see these Americans define cheating as… when they say “dating”, these americans really mean these 2 people are having “contraceptive sexual intercourse” and even if they are married, they are still having mostly “contraceptive sexual intercourse.” Basically why I’m saying is that the kind of sexual relationship 21st century urban American people have is a contraceptive sexual relationship.  Plus it is based on the Ancient Roman FICTION of monogamy or serial marriages where they date / break up or get married / get divorced.

Back to the Roman FICTION of monogamy, in the first place, look at the biological human species.  The human males are built to propagate his genes… he produces lots of sperm… is horny for many days of the year, ever-ready.  The human females are built to make babies, they are horny when fertile, and want the best sperm she can get her hands on making trade offs between a man available to nurture and provide good genes.

I recommend you read the book the Selfish Gene or Sperm Wars.  So you will know the true nature of human beings.  We humans are always looking for the best deal.  It is a non-stop deal making in the conscious or subconscious sense.  Most people are unconscious of their behaviour.  Lucky us who are awake and see what is happening and interpret at that same moment what is happening.  And most of us take advantage of this knowledge.

Some resort to blind religion.  Because they can’t handle the truth.  That is how they would like to cope.

So for those interested to really know why men cheat… the answer is… because they are MEN, because they are HUMAN, so they can propagate their species.  Does it say in the dotted line in your dating agreement that all sperm you produce henceforth belong to your girlfriend?

And what of contraceptive sexual relationships today?  It perverts human sexuality and humans adjust accordingly.  Contraceptive sex is fake sex.  A very low percentage of reproductive success in the attempts, that is why there is more frenzied activity to have sex elsewhere or with the same woman or with different women, increase the probabilities of making babies.  The problem with the blind contraceptive political correctness culture is they are convinced that sex is for love or sex is for recreation… baloney… fools… grow up you cry babies and wake up from your zombie sleep.  One reason why men cheat and need to get sex elsewhere is he can’t get the REAL THING with his contraceptive sexual partner.

So lets simplify things.  Men “cheat” because you believe in the fiction of monogamy.  Men “cheat” because he needs to reproduce.  Men “cheat” because he needs real sex, not fake contraceptive sex.  And for those women who have retired from sex… you can’t really expect your husband to retire from sex at the same time as you… then it isn’t really cheating.  He just needs to keep his sanity.