flowers…chocolates..love letters…mushy messages…poetry…i love yous….
tears…sleepless nights…promises…commitment
the unexplained High…the butterflies…
there’s got to be more than all these…. unsure.gif
when is it Real? unsure.gif really?
My answer:
When the SEX is REAL. No condoms, no pullouts, no birth control pills, no contraception. The sex is spontaneous and LIFE CREATING. When consciously in your heart and in your minds you appreciate and welcome NEW LIFE with all your passion and spirit.
A lot of people merely say with words that they love each other. But their body language is contraceptive. This exposes their sexual intentions and words of love are fake.
Following through: A missed menstrual period brings excitement and joy to both man and woman. The birth of their children bring even more joy and commitment to fulfill the circle of life that leads to grandchildren. And at the dawn of your lives you have this enormous family reunion celebrating your love, your union that brought to life some 4 generations of families that will live on and self-propagate to eternity.