10.09.06
Why couples breakup, unified theory of reproduction
In parts of the world where romantic love is worshipped and viewed with awe and mystery, the most painful times are times of breakup. You know… boyfriend girlfriend breakups or husband wife divorces.
Let me take away the mystery that shrouds this common occurrence.
In my unified theory of reproduction, the romantice love dance is a prelude to the prospect of reproduction. In the olden days of non-contraception, life was easy and simple. You danced, you attempted to create lives (had sex), you made lives, you nurtured these lives as parents, and these lives gave birth to new lives and you still nurture them as grandparents.
Unfortunately this very simple human biological life cycle has been sabotaged by population controllers and their indoctrination of contraception.
The painful breakups that happen today are mere symptoms of infertility fatigue, let me explain. Couples do their mating rituals and finally mate… copulate… several times, in the attempt to procreate. There is almost no difference between cases of infertility or if they intentionally contracepted for long periods of time. The dance, the game gets old, gets tiring, and people get fed up with the same routine.
People expect change. Romance bears children, shared parenthood brings responsibility and love, shared grandparenthood makes you teachers with authority. People do not like being stuck in the romance stage. Boyfriends and girlfriends break up.
With divorces: urban lifestyles, feminism, ridiculous government laws mostly make parenting a non-event. I call it hands-off parenting. Parents being stuck in the rat race are mere money providers but are hands off. One or both parents do not have time for their children or their spouses. Plus their mis-education in the universities and businesses have brainwashed them to find no fulfillment in spending time with their biological families.
Same thing between infertility and contraception, married couples think just because they have a few children between them they are no longer subject to the same infertility - romance breakup subconscious game.
With forced monogamy and a non-reproducing wife, a still virile and reproductive husband will usually stray. The monogamous wife will usually tolerate a philandering husband as long as he sticks to prostitutes. But the monogamous wife will not tolerate mistresses or second wives. At this point they would rather choose divorce or separate. Crazy monogamists.
Of course open polygamy solves this problem. A younger wife is brought into the family. The husband is sexually fulfilled. The second wife gains a husband and makes a family. The first wife still shares parenting with her husband and now with her sister wife.
There is nothing mysterious about breakups, the ridiculous reasons are well… ridiculously justified by people’s subconsciousness of the need for change, for progress, to enhance reproductivity… even if people are today brainwashed to be contraceptive.
Let me share an example with my relatives:
Grandma wonders why Patricia and long time boyfriend Brad broke up.
I said, well Brad wasn’t man enough to impregnate Patricia.
My wife exclaims… sheesh, then rolls her eyes.
“I’ll show you proof”, I said.
Look at Aina and Lee, Aina had a long time boyfriend, she broke up with him and Lee came along. In 2 months Aina was pregnant and 6 months later they got married.
Look at Barney and Delilah, got married when Delilah was already 5 months pregnant.
Look at Ayza and Ted, their son was already 1 year old when they got married.
It runs in our family, dear wife of mine. That is the way life is.
