My pronatalism and anti-contraception stand has irked some of my relatives on my mother side. They ask my grandmother: “What is with him? What is with his outlandish theories on sexuality?”
Its not as if I found a new religion. I was born this way. My own mother was a contraceptive zombie drunk on many years of birth control pills. And she openly taught us children her convictions. But I never bought them. In fact, I was disgusted at her contraceptive lifestyle. I always felt it was her way of manipulating my father. And I never want to be manipulated into submission by any woman.
My second trip to Butuan City, where my paternal grandfather, an uncle and my aunts call home, was an eye opener. I know now why I disagreed with my mother and my mother’s relatives on their contraceptive mentality… I inherited my sexual convictions from my father’s side! My father never talked to me about this. He let my mother attempt to indoctrinate us. But it didn’t work. My brain is genetically wired solid in the concept of my sexuality.
I learned that my prolife, anti-contraception and pronatalism is the same of that of my 2 aunts, my paternal grandfather and grandmother, and my great grand father (mother of my paternal grandmother), who all taught that the most important part of marriage is to keep on making children. And they told their children and their wives to never fear making more children as they had farms that grew enough produce to feed them all.
It is truly amazing to see with my mothers’ side of the family being decimated by contraceptive mentality which began with my grandmother and her 3 sisters; compared to my father’s side who taught against contraception and are now producing great grandchildren continuously.
I know I’m correct on the issue against contraception. I can see it right in front of me with my relatives. Two complete contrasts ending in the extermination of the contraceptive side. I am the only grandchild producing great grandchildren on my mothers’ side.