09.02.06
Stay at home mom or career woman?
A forum thread in www.manilatonight.com asked if you would want to be a stay at home mom or a career woman.
Here are my choice cuts from those who experienced career mothers.
Uchisy said:
i’d prefer being a houswife, my mom wasnt there for me when she worked…
And this is what I had to say:
My mother was a career / business woman. She sucked as a mom, basically because she had no time for us.
My wife is a career woman. She sucks as a mom, because she has no mommy skills, she has no housewife skills, and she has no motherly attitude, she cannot cook, and she has no time for me as a husband, and she has no time for the children.
You CAN NEVER HAVE IT ALL. You cannot be present at the same time and same place.
Let this be my RANT against the career women in my life.
Other than the biology of giving birth…
You ALL SUCKED as mothers.My wife needs 3 yayas and 1 full time cook to compensate for her absence as a mother.
My thought: “Career women should be relegated to 2nd wives in a Polygamous (multiple marriage) arrangement in a household, the full time Housewife shouled be uplifted and honored as the 1ST WIFE.”
Then lordraven12 sighed:
“You can’t do anything about it, that’s the way life is… (women work today).”
My reply to that is:
Actually I can do something about it in my children’s generation: Career women are banned from marrying my sons unless they are 2nd wives. 1st wives will always be HOUSE WIVES.
And my daughters will be marrying men who have the finances to allow my daughters to be #1 and be THE HOUSE WIFE.
So there you have it. We have recognized the problem, we will not make the same mistakes. Career women are not suitable first wives and suck at mothering. Career women can bring in the money, but cannot run the home.
The original manilatonight thread can be found here.