What makes women clingy? What makes women bond to their men? Why is NFP superior to condoms?
The answer is insemination: the ejaculation of semen deep inside the vagina. Semen contains hormones, sperm, genetic information. Information that is subconsciously used by women to determine who their man is.
Prostitutes today usually use condoms. They feel no bond with their customers. But the regular ones or the favored ones have the benefit of insemination, real attempts at making life.
Boyfriend girlfriend condom relationships have no special bond until and unless inseminations have taken place. It becomes easy for the girlfriend to throw away boyfriend if he has not inseminated her for a long time.
Married people continuously have sex, and not all acts lead to pregnancy. But the bonding takes place with insemination.
How many times have you heard your local pro-lifer tell you that the best kind of sex is genital, without a condom, ejaculation deep inside? This is the biological reason why.
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What you say is true, the hormone oxytocin is released endogenously during orgasm for both men and women. It is also recieved exogenously by the female during insemination. Oxytocin not only causes human pair-bonding, but it also opens the cervix to allow the flow of semen into the uterus and fallopian tubes which increases the likelyhood of conception. Oxytocin is know as the cuddle hormone, it is more commonly understood as the hormone that allows for mother-baby bonding during the breastfeeding stage. Breastfeeding is essential for healthy children both physically and emotionally.
Why a woman would want to miss out on the bonding experience with her man and then her child is impossible for me to understand. No condoms for me, and when I do have children breastfeeding will be a must.
People need to be more educated about their bodies. We really are amazing creatures.